you just have to take it step by step. Pretty much everyone started off really nervous around the opposite sex, but every time you try it gets a little easier. Eventually knowing how to flirt, talk, and meet comes much more easily (though of course, for most there will always be some sort of nervousness when talking to an interest). Each day just put yourself in situations even though you are really scared and think you look stupid. Instead of just waving when a girl is walking by, say "Hey, hows it goin?". What's the worst that can happen? She is not going to think "why is he talking to me right now he is so stupid". Would you think this if a girl came and talked to you? And even if they do think you are weird (which the majority wont, unless they are b**chs for lack of a better word), so what? that's bad for them and good for you because what you did was positive and what they are thinking is negative. You have to start somewhere tho, or you will never go anywhere. Everyone experiences a little fear, that's normal, its just about choosing when to take those first few steps that give you the momentum to improve.
when it comes to talking to girls its really not that hard. we really aren't that scary! if you want to talk to a girl you like or girls in general just go for it! get to know her and be cool. if you come across interesting she will want to get to know more about you. if things go well she will probably come to you next time!
I just always feel really awkward when talking to girls and I don't know why but I get scared and I can't talk to her at all. - 11 months ago
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Well what are some things that you talk about with your guy friends? don't worry about everything going perfect because most of the time things don't go perfect at first but in the end you realize everything was for the best - 11 months ago
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I don't really have very many guy friends. - 11 months ago
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Well I would just go for it. take a chance and it will probably pay off in the long run - 11 months ago
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I don't think you understand how hard this is more me though. - 11 months ago
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I really do because its the same when I talk to guys. your not really sure what to say and that's even if you get up the courage to say hi and then you need to see what type of person they are within a few words of what they say. trust me I know what you are going through. just be yourself and if they like who that is then it will be worth it. if they don't like that person don't change and just move on you can do better than them anyway. - 11 months ago
How old are you? You must have something interesting going on in your life that a girl would find fun to talk about. Try and find a common ground and go from there. Is she wearing a sports jersey? Great, as her what she thinks about her team's chances this year. Ask her how she met her best friends. Girls love to talk about their friends and if you let them, will carry the conversation for you.
The most important thing is not to have a set of pre-scripted conversations ready for a girl, but to be an interesting person yourself. Also, you must start talking with girls by choice and by habit. Next time you are checking out at a supermarket, always choose the counter with a girl behind the register. Even if you start out by just asking how her day is going, that's a step in teh right direction.
Starting is the hardest part. Some girls are downright vicious and will reject even the greatest of guys. If you are rejected, just remember that you are only one step closer to finding an amazing woman. It takes a lot of searching, now get to work! :)
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