Girls I beg for assists! Based on pure eye contact and facial movement what is the best way to tell a girl your interested? As well how do you personally let guys know?
Eye contact for about 5 seconds or a little less usually tells them your interested. Most people will only hold the eye contact if they are interested in some way.
Look deep into her eyes, and smile. Never fails. Body language is really important. Get close to her, but keep your space, and touch her hand with just one finger very lightly. It'll send shivers, trust me.
Just smile at them when you see them , make small talk. A girl while usually let you know by doing the same thing back or encouraging the convo. I also think it helps when you have your own private joke. It can be anything random. It just makes it feel like you two have a bond then and gives you something to joke about when you don't have anything else to say
Personally, I get a kick out of seeing a guy bite his lip. Gives me chills. Something I don't see very often. Lots of intense eye contact is also a turn on. I'm lost if he does both at the same time. And often.
I have been reading about body language a lot, so I "get" the "subtle" signs now. Stroking a coffee cup is good. Cologne is good. Especially if I've ever said I like the scent and the guy wears it a lot. Innuendo and "inside jokes" are awesome. I guess it's about finding the connections and playing them up.
Personally I will give him a flirty look and smile at him. I will like kind of challenge him with my eyes, as in stare him down but in a good way. To me, what lets me know a guy is interested is by the way he looks at me or how he touches me. Like you can totally tell if they are just you friends when they touch you or if they are trying to get close to you. Like for example my friend (who is now my boy friend) would always try to knock me down at the beach but when he started liking me he would still try to knock me down but he would try to feel me up. That how I knew he liked me. Its just really how you act around that person, girls can tell when you are acting differently and that is a sign.
Well I always smile a lot and giggle. I turn into such a 12 year old girl around a guy I like, it's pathetic lol. I'm shy so I don't initiate flirting but if he flirts first I'm into it
Kind of playfully touch her and see how she responds. If she pulls away that necessarily is not bad, she may not be sure what you are up to. (if she wrinkles up her nose like she is smelling something that is your answer right there) smile at her and maintain good eye contact. (but not like you are going to shoot lasers at her) I love it when a guy touches me in the lower part of my back and kind of nudges me closer to him. It is like a secure feeling. While doing this talk to her in a low voice, you may have to lean in closer to her and whisper in her ear. If she is anything like me she will start to blush and move closer to you. All of this depends on how well you know her. Start with the eye contact or the playful touch and progress from there.
Smile when you look at her but don't be stalkerish. As for me, when I am around a guy that I like, I get giggly. Just about anything will make me laugh, so if she has a personality like mine, crack a few jokes or even poke fun at her.
Look her straight in the eyes when you and her r talking. do something quirky like pull on her a bit and have a small smile on your lips. also body language says be a little closure then you usually would be, not a lot. make sure she's comfortable with the proximity.
Stare deep in her eyes from a few feet way. With your left hand use your thumb and pointer to make an "O". With your right hand insert pointer finger in and out of said "O" while winking at her.
Just joking.
Look at her and smile in a friendly non threatning way. See how she reacts, if it's positive (she smiles back and looks in your eyes, then looks away shyly) approach her.
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
'Pickup lines'? I would NOT use a pickup line unless I'm joking around. I've used the one 'I lost my number... Can I have yours' but I couldn't say it with a straight face! Why not just start talking to the dude? Without being annoying and without making him think your stalking him!
How do they typically respond?
They always talk back to me and usually tell me how 'different' I am. Apparently I'm thee only girl whoo takes time to just talk to thee guy without being stalkerish and annoying :P