Yeahhbro

Ok I need help writting a message for a girl that I barely know?
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Yeahhbro (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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Ok long story short, there is this girl that I met a long time ago, I like her, but she is like weird, shy and likes to play hard to get and which made it very difficult for me to talk to her. At the end I think she likes me because she likes to stare at me and she has actually physically move to be closer to me.

Anyhow I added her but she didn't accept me and I couldn't write her a message because of the settings. But a couples of day ago, that feature is now open! so I can finally send her a message. It has been a while, but I like her too much so I haven't forget her, so I want to talk to her.

What should I write her?

Update: how should I do it without looking creepy?    4 months ago

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    4 months ago
    do you know where she lives (town) try to run into her and see if you can talk to her in person first, or at least make eye contact see if she reacts to seeing u

    then Facebook her like hey it was great running into you today, how are u? I miss the old times...

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    Anonymous User
    4 months ago
    break the ice with her in person. When you are sure she acknowledges your existence positively, proceed to message her online. When you see how the conversation is flowing, then pop in your info about liking her.

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    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Oh boy, you got it bad. Okay, if your friends are friends with her, try getting into some group conversations, and make input, make a little eye contact now and then. Girls don't like it when guys are too shy, we want to be approached first. And once you are not desperate and pathetic in your approach to her, once she's not a total bitch, she'll be polite with you. It will work out, just take your time, but at the same time, don't take too long.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      i can't do it face to face, trust me if I could I would do it and I wouldn't even think about Facebook.
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    Anonymous User
    4 months ago
    get to know her better first and you won't be so nervous writing it, I think it could back fire if you write it and don't really know her, you don't want to scare her away..

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      trust if I could talk with to her face to wace I wouldn't even think about Facebook. But unfortunatelly I can't because we don't see each other anymore anyways.
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    Anonymous User
    4 months ago
    If other people are writing the message for you then you are sort of being fake.

    You should make it up yourself.

    Will you need us to help you put the condom on also?

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  • fefe884
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    fefe884
    4 months ago
    Dude, it sounds like she isn`t interested in you and that you mis-read something to look like she was moving closer to you. Even if she did, it doesn`t necessarily mean she likes you...

    I advice that you back down and see how she responds to that. If she opens up when you back down, then she probably DOES like you.

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    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      And what is it you did to her that might have made you a jerk?
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      lol I am talking about like apologzing for being a jerk and to hopefully make things up
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      What's wrong with informal? Informal brings comfort. I wouldn't want someone talking to me like I'm their boss or the president of the united states :p
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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      isn't that too informal, plus it has been a while you know
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Chat with her like you would chat to a friend. How do you normally chat with friends in terms of greeting them and asking about their endeavours?
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      i haven't said anything. But I think I should because I was a jerk with her because she was shy and I couldn't understand her behavior
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      what would you have said that you think you would come out too strong?
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      true but I am scared I might come out too strong :S
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      well you didn't put that in your question. All you said was that she 'physically moved closer to you', which does not indicate that someone likes you; it indicates someone moved to a location closer to you. Now that you mentioned all that, it might mean she may be fond of you. But really, you can't know by just body language. And I'll suggest you stop asking people what to say to her and actually be yourself and talk to her like YOU would talk to someone you like, not like how others would. -_-
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      then what does actually standing up from her chair changing spots with her friend and then coming closer to me and sitting right beside me means to you?
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    Anonymous User
    4 months ago
    hey long time no see! hows everything going? hope all is well with you how are u?

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      ok
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    4 months ago
    How about organising a party, dinner, or going to a gig with two or three of your friends (try to invite at least one other girl!) and inviting her? This way you can perhaps get to know her better without it sounding like a date? And since you don't know each other well it's a good way to avoid awkward silences :)

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      can't do that, Facebook is the only way I can do this
  • rougecerise
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    rougecerise
    4 months ago
    "Hey, how are you?" Remember when we hung out? or, anything like that. Don't come on too strong.

    Good Luck!

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      ok thanks!
  • CrystalMinds
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    CrystalMinds
    4 months ago
    You could start with "Hey, how are you?"

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    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Then she doesn't feel like talking to you.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      ok what if she doesn't answer
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Then she either won't answer or ask you who you are. Then you answer...
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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      why if she is like who is this guy?
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      So you want to have a deep conversation within your first sentence and message? What's wrong with a simple "hey, how are you?" she can answer, you can answer her message, you can start deeper conversations et voila.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      is that it? its been a while since the last I talked to her, I though a deeper conversation was more appropiate
  • gantu99
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    gantu99
    4 months ago
    Well maybe if you're in the same school say hey and ask for some notes from one of your classes,even if you don't need them its a good way to start a convo like OK thx for the notes, how are you by the way?

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      i can't do that anymore :( we don't take anything together anymore, Facebook is the only way I can do this
 

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