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How do I see him again?!

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 4 months ago
Category: Flirting

Met a lovely guy in a bar but didn't exchange contact details for lack of a better word that we were both gutless.

How or what can I do to see him again? I know chances are slim


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  • PhilaPenn
    3350  
    4 months ago
    Just go back to the bar a couple times. Chances are that he'll be back.

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Ok thanks :)
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Close together. If you don't run into him in the next few weeks, chances will be bleak.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Couple of times close together? Or apart?
  • 6Paul11
    8327  
    4 months ago
    Try going back to the bar and asking the bartender about him. Maybe he is a regular. Bartenders know everything.

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  • Prof_Don
    21745  
    4 months ago
    i would revisit that bar the same day of the week at the same time of day/nite hoping he's a regular at that bar...that imo is your best shot to reunite with him.

    Best of luck, and I hope you learned your lesson about always getting contact info.

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  • rts10272
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    4 months ago
    Do you know his last name or have mutual friends? Maybe you can find him on Facebook. Also, Craigslist has a "missed connections" section.

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Nope no nothing haha! Don't know whether to laugh or cry!
  • goodguysfinishlast
    1798  
    4 months ago
    You can go to the same bar at the same time and the same day to see if he shows up. If I was interested that's what I would do in hopes you would show up. You can even go to the bar and ask the bartender if he knows him. Leave your first name and number with the bartender in case he shows up if he returns some other time.
    If he shows up, the first thing is exchange didgets. Lol

    Good luck

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Aw that's sweet thanks :-)
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Hey - stranger things have happened. if it is meant to be you will find each other...
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Thanks but its too good to be true
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Anytime. I hope you find each other. If you see him there again he really is into you as well.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Thank you :)
 

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    4 months ago
    I know how you must feel. Don't give up, no matter how slim your chances are!

    3 Months ago I talked to a guy on Chatroulette till our connection got disconnected, sadly. All I was left with was his first name and the city he lived in. 5 weeks and a LOT of effort later I found him :-)

    I hope this gives you a better feeling! You got it easy in comparison to me! Don't just go to the bar on the same day and time as when you met, hang out there more often :)

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    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      We're going through a rough patch but we're working on it :)

      Oh okay, still I don't think your chances are that slim! If you happen to see him again, let me know :)
      Good luck girl :)
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Ah OK sorry to hear that, hope it can work out somehow.

      Yes very big city, will try the bar again hoping he's there :-)

      Thank you
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      My story is actually way more complicated, we haven't even been together since we live in different countries but yes, we still keep in touch. I'm not sure how long this is gonna last though - as I said: complicated...(a lot of heartbreak involved on my part)

      You don't need to know his name, just show up at this bar frequently and if it's meant to be it's gonna happen, don't you worry :) Is the city you live in big?
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Are you two still together?

      I don't even know his name :(
 
   
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