Should I send an anonymous email?

*you're (sorry dude, but if you're going to go for it you gotta get the grammer right)

Btw you didn't need to have answers from us most of us said don't do it ! But you still chose as BA the answer you wanted from the start. You just needed someone to reassure that it'sokay so that you don't feel guilty. And it's not ok.

Dude. If it's your best friend's wife then you are a bigger ass. And if she's a cheater well yes she will probably cheat with someone else but it still doesn't make your actions right and I hope you don't want something more serious than getting laid with this woman. Also, bear in mind that relationships are complicated and sometimes you don't love the person your with as much as you love someone else because guess what? That someone else doesn't love or respect you the same way as the person that you are with. I've been unwilling to settle into this type of relationship and guess what, I'm still single and contemplating that I don't want to die alone eaten by an Alsatian so I will give the guys who love and like me a chance instead of testing my luck and submitting my heart to further heartbreak and humiliation with men that are not interested. So yeah do what you want and don't ask people stupid questions when you've already decided what you want to do. So write a letter... No it is not creepy since you both like one another. Will it cause any trouble? Yes especially for her but since you don't give a sh*t really,why not? Just know it's not right and karma is a bitch.

Only a guy could think that was the best answer...

Rather despicable person for ever thinking you can go with someone who is married.

I'd say no to you.

Soooooo no one is getting best answer!?

Well as someone who broke up a family (and has to live with that) and had that idea- just be careful what you wish for.

Oh, you're a piece of work alright.

Per your update...HAHA you wish!

She's married. End of story. In fact, that's the whole story. There's nothing else to say. Back off!

Wow, that's a really sh*tty idea.

Yes it's too creepy,she's married after all. Though honestly, I don't really think this situation is real...after all, it doesn't make sense you'd send something like that to a married woman, but also, what would be the point of sending an anonymous letter if she'll know who it's from?!

No leave her alone if y'all were friends you'd respect that and just send the song with a regular email

She is married . That should be an automatic deal breaker.
What do you expect to come from this?
Her to blush and flirt with you more?
Even if that is the reaction you get, you are interfering with a marriage and trust me,
nothing good will come from this.
She will not leave her husband for you.
Try finding a woman that is single and flirt with her.

Nothing good will come of it so link

DO NOT MESS WITH A MARRIAGE. EVER.

She is married.. no communication like that is proper at all.

that is creepy as f*** omg stop

Don't do it, it's creepy and sounds like you're stalking her.

No., don't sent it. Creepy & no point to it.

first get your grammar right... "You're* beautiful", second find a a single lady (haha that's a song) , oh and third anonymous is pretty creepy yeah...

Shes married, find someone whos single.

Jeez dude... what is wrong with you? SHe is married! I will admit to one thing. Some women are really fickle and sometimes their heads are not on their shoulders. As this woman has probably been married for a long time, she probably doesn't get told she is beautiful. I wouldn't go encouraging her and making her head big. You know why? Becuase she is going to have her mind on her anonymous lover and keep thinking about it. Women love it when guys are thinking about them and they tend to forget who they are married to. I say it is a little creepy and it will cause friction between her and her husband. Just look and don't say anything...even anonymously.

You don't want to be the source of a divorce now do you?

She's married, so NO.

Dude! Just leave her be! She's MARRIED. It's hard enough to like someone when you are married to someone else, WITHOUT providing her the temptation! Plus, unless you create a new email account with an anonymous name (which would be extremely creepy) your name would come up with the message anyway.

It is simply the wrong thing to do. Just because Infidelity is popular in society doesn't make it right. And another thought, jaded but try, if she'd cheat or stray on her husband what makes you think you wouldn't receive the same treatment?

It's a sweet thought but unless you're 110% percent sure that she want's to end her marriage and be with you - my answer would be a definate no. Sorry :)

Don't do it

how would you feel if you were married, regardless if you are happily married or not, would that bother you if another man would send your wife an anonymous email saying "You are beautiful"? at the end of the day you'll do what you want but if she comes to play with you wouldn't it scare you if the same cycle repeats itself but this time its you who gets betrayed?

she is married, and you should respect that, however, she may not be happy in her marriage.

in my opinion, if she does leave her husband for u, it isn't your fault. that is going to be her decision.

Yes that is super creepy and you're a total douche bag for attempting to pursue a married woman:)

She is married. Don't do it.

Leave her alone..she is a married woman. Don't be "that" guy.

An anonymous email quoting You're beautiful would possibly freak me out and then I'd show it to my fiance and we'd both probably laugh our asses off. Don't do it. If she ever finds out its you, even if she's not happy in her marriage, you wouldn't even be up for consideration

Dude, she's married. don't do it

Honestly, yes that is kind of creepy. But she may be flattered if she actually knows you. If you're just a far away admirer and she barely knows you, she may go running for the hills but it all depends. If she's attracted to you, if she has a relationship or a friendship with you, she may be flattered or like you but... she's taken already. You could ruin a whole relationship and at what costs?

You and her may not work out and then you went and ruined a relaitonship. If she has marital problems she should work those out first and either chose to stay or leave but don't be the determining factor unless there's already issues. I'm saying this because some woman are in horrible relationships, they're abused and treated like crap and they deserve better men but if her relationship is fine you shouldn't really be playing with fire.

Honestly... I think you should probably look for another crush instead of a woman whose married. I know that's NOT the answer you want to hear.. but I don't think you should send the email and she may be creeped out if she barely knows you and all you say is "your beautiful" that's a bit creepy. Usually if somebody is going to profess their love they put more words into it than that and plus she's married so... its kinda a double edged sword.

theres no point in being anonymous at this point you have to just be honest, but I think you should just let it go if she is married. don't be a homewrecker. you werent her first choice so there's no point in hoping to be all she wanted.

she's married.
that's a line her husband would be adamant you can't cross and if she's not happy, she should take that in her own hands, not you.
I would find it creepy.
I'm engaged to marry and I have this one guy on Facebook keeps emailing me-both me and my fiance find it creepy.
yes , find another one.
good luck.

Her husband will probably find it creepy when she denies knowing you, haha!

Unhappy in her marriage, feelings reciprocated, etc doesn't matter. She's off the market, move on to someone that isn't married. Summary: yes, it's creepy.

First of all, she's married, second of all, if she likes you like said she does why not wait for the divorce and why must you be anonymous, and thirdly the song is called you're beautiful, that is all.

If she's unhappy in her marriage let her resolve it with her husband so maybe one day you can be together. E-mailing a married woman with some song lyrics is probably the most childish and stupidest thing you can do, you're not in high school nor she is single.

Creepy. Plus she's married.

Don't waste your time.

if she is married hell no

is it even possible to send an anonymous email?
but, anyway, you may *like* her and she may *like* you but she is married. so, NO. You shouldn't do that.

She's Married. That's a big No! No!. Yeah she likes you...but does she like you more then her husband(you know, the guy she VOWED to spend the rest of her life with!) Don't lose a friend...

Um no! she is married.

She's married. Bad idea all around.

She is married...don't...just dont...

Yes and yes. She is married! What if that was your wife? And what if she does leave her spouse for you? How will you ever know that she won't go and do the same to you?

Bad idea.

Don't get involved with a married woman

...how do you send an anonymous email?

She could very well get creeped out. I would. She might not even respond.

Two possible outcomes:

A. She loves her husband and you will come off as a complete idiot. She may even show the email to him and you might end up without teeth as he husband punches your face.

B. She is into you is in an unhappy marriage... but instead of divorcing him she uses suckers like you to have sex with and get them emotionally involved. Plus its a complete lack of ethics and self love to do this to yourself cause if you ever do end up in a relationship you will be scared that your gf/wife will cheat on you.

Even if she weren't married, that would still be creepy.

Not cool man not cool. Plus I had that happen once in college. I have no idea how dude got my name mixed up with someone else since it is so unusual, but he told me how beautiful I was. He then sent another one about how much he wanted to ask me out. Then another about how he loved to sit behind me and look at me. I told him I sat at the back with no one behind me. It was then he realized I was the wrong woman. At first though it was a bit creepy since he kept telling me weird things about him. OK they were only weird since I knew nothing about him, but still.

dont be a home wrecker!

Bad idea. Don't do it.

Right so let me get this thing straight. You're willing jeopardize your "best friend's" marriage just so you can get a few f***s with his wife? You're willing to terminate your so-called friendship up when there are millions of other girls waiting for a chump like you.

Listen to me carefully, it isn't worth it - it never will, even if it seems to you that his wife isn't having a great marriage. Adultery is a criminal offence in 23 states, not only will you be criminally charged but you will lose that reputation of being a "charmer". Girls will start to overlook you and want nothing to do with you.

Not only that but your best friend will bury you in his past i.e will never speak a word to you again.

I agree with most people here you're a brat who needs to be taught a lesson. For someone between the ages of 36 to 45 it makes you seem very immature.

"To stay married to someone when you love someone else is worse than adultery" This just sums it all up. How so? Please tell us.

I would shag a married woman but I'm in highshcool, your a grown adult male WTF are you thinking?!?

How do you know she'll know who sent it?

Obviously, the law varies from place to place. Probably, no, you can't get in trouble from sending just one e-mail like that.

It may be a little creepy, especially if she doesn't know who it's from.

Unless her husband has basically rejected her, I would view your attempt to hit on her as immoral.

Married women screw like minks. Go for it. Who cares about marriage, it isn't taken as serious as it used to. She's just going to screw around with someone else, so just might as well be with you.

As for the e-mail, stick to the point. Tell her exactly how & what you want to do to her. When it comes time when you do hook up, she'll be ready to rip your clothes off.

If she's married, forget it. Learn to respect a marriage.

Kinda creepy dude.

Sooooo creepy.

She married. Have some class and leave her alone. There's plenty of attractive single women you could be focusing on.

She will fear for her safety and children.

Please, don't do it. She's married. What if you're married to that girl and some other guy hits on her behind your back?

I stopped at married.

Don't do it