I have a boyfriend and we have been going out for the longest. We live apart for each other because he goes to the marines all ready love him a lot but, there's a problem. The problem is that there is this guy in school that flirts with me in a way of playing around, supposedly he does it with every other girl, but to me I feel as if there was a connection between me and him. Most of the time I don't pay attention to it, until a couple weeks I've been having dreams about him. Now I can't get over him. I want to tell him something but I can't. I at least want to get his number to be close friends. Now, I know I'm being unfaithful to my boyfriend but what can I do? This is why I want to know if he likes me, before I make the wrong move.
I am sensing that you already have made up your mind and you want to move it a step further with this new guy. To you, the wrong move is acting on something, when there is actually nothing and at the end, you looking like a fool, who misread the signs. To me the wrong thing here is you doing inappropriate things behind your boyfriend's back. The least he deserves is to get an honest break-up from you.
As for the dreams; recent studies found out that dreams are sort of a training ground for living creatures to weigh things and take an action while in their sleep so that they would be prepared when faced with a similar situation in real-life. This is a partially proven theory and the one that made sense to me the most and if I were you I wouldn't justify my real-life actions on my dreams.
It truly doesn't matter how young or old we are, we as men are typically not any good at expressing how we feel. Perhaps it's because our parents don't teach us how (because obviously our fathers...