Ok I'm guessing the shorter the more responses you get. Here's the shortest version I can put together. I like this girl who was born and raised all her life in japan. I can't tell if she likes me because of the things she says and the body language signals she's sending. When we have time we hang out all day and talk, joke, tease, tickle and have physical contact like touching our arms, legs, hair. She has positive body language and laughs all the time and thinks I'm very funny. The problem is she also sends negative signals, like she'll sit almost on my lap to teach me her language but then after a 10 minutes leans forward. We had this huge talk of how she doesn't want love occupying her life emotional or physical, and doesn't deserve love. (we never discussed why she feels she doesn't deserve it) She also doesn't want to cuddle because she knows it will lead and doesn't want to lead me on. She said I shouldn't fall for a girl like her. She never said she didn't like me that way, that conversation was the perfect time to draw that line. She has excuses for touching me, she's an artist. She says all that and yet is so close to me sometimes.
Update: So is she scared, want to take it slow, is waiting for me to make the first move, or am I reading to much into it and she doesn't like me? 7 months ago
She seems to feel very inadequate and perhaps is suffering low self esteem. From her body language it does seem like she fancies you. Maybe she felt pressurized in a relationship before you. If you do ask her out just take it slowly Good luck!
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