Why is it that once you find a woman; other women just start firing themselves at you??

Some girls just want "what they can't have."

Because now you reek of confidence. You don't give a crap what woman likes you or not (only thing that matters is the woman you have now) and somehow your devil may care attitude comes across as super confidence...and we all know how woman love confident guys...even if they are less than attractive.


There is something to learn here guys...


Now if you had that same attitude when you were in the "sahara desert" you would have had women bringing you water...so to speak.

maybe you are feeling better about yourself and present urelf better than before

Success breeds success: as long as you've no woman near you, other women think/feel there is a reason to that and instinctively suspect there is a possibility that you are or might be a gay, a loser or a nerd or a creep or someone less interesting to them
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Once you've girlfriend there's less or no doubt and the added spice of (maybe) taking another girls' friend away.

Moreover it's possible that you pay a bit more attention to wear the right clothes and haircut (as your girlfriend tells you to do)

Didn't it happen to you to 'discover' the charms of a 'plain girl' once she got a bf?

A few reasons.

-If you've got a woman, it "proves" that you're "worthy" of dating. You've been vetted.

-Lots of people want what they can't have. So if you're off the market, you're forbidden fruit.

-Sometimes, they're flirting because they think you're "safe." You're off-limits for a relationship (at least right now), but they can get a safe buzz with a bit of flirting.