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To Approach or not To Approach?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 11 months ago
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I like a guy in school. Yes, he is popular. But that is NOT why I like him. I've actually never liked anyone popular. The reason I like him is because he is independent. Anyway, since he is popular, he has many people around him almost all the time.

He is more on the quiet side, though, so that makes me more comfortable to talk to him. I don't know if he likes me. I've noticed him looking at me. Or at least pretending to. It's hard to explain. So maybe he likes me and may be he doesn't and I want to find our which.

My question is what should I do?

Note: I haven't talked to him much this school year. Only last year. A little bit.

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Compliment him in some way.

Wait for him to say something to me first.

Start a conversation about something.. (WHAT?)

Flirt.. (WHAT KIND OF FLIRTING?)
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random-guy-4-girl (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
Start a conversation about school, or a common interest. Built on that, if they conversation moves to another subject he is probably interested.
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nobodygirl (Age:Under 18)      When: 10 months ago
Just start saying hi to him when you see him, if he wouldn't just be weirded out. If you do, remember to smile and wave. Once you two have sorta gotten used to that, ask him an open-ended question about something you two have in common. Like if both of you are in fourth hour math with a teacher who's famous for liking guys better, ask him what he thinks of her girl-hatred.

Do stuff like that often and make friends with him, but still use body language to flirt: leaning towards him, biting your lips, eye contact, stuff like that.
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zoell-the-confuzed (Age:Under 18)      When: 11 months ago
Comment on something, a class you might share, a math problem you don't get, something he's good at, or maybe even his shoes or hair or something. Examples: "Did you understand such and such problem in class today?" (or maybe slip in an offer to help him with something that he's having trouble with)
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isittrue (Age:30 to 35)      When: 11 months ago
Find the time to try and talk to him, if you guys talk long enough you can tell if he likes you.
if nothing else make up some reason to talk to him. If he likes you he will then start making up reasons to his friends to talk to you.
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kiki-baby
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kiki-baby (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
What's wrong with popular people, they can't help it if they have a lot of friends and are in after school activities. But I think you should start hanging out with them, show up at the games and sit next to him in one of your classes. Make sure your always smiling and wear something really cute, show off your legs. That always works for me. Good Luck!
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