send your sexy panties (perhaps new with a hint of your favorite perfume, but definitely NOT dirty) to a gentleman you met online if he asked you to? You've chatted with him for a bit and he is nice, normal, not creepy at all. He tells you its more about the bravery, spontaneity and the private "naughtiness" between the two of you- not a perverted fetish thing. In return he offers his worn favorite t-shirt, with his natural male scent and spritz of his favorite cologne. Would you find that a small sexy thrill, or the very least complimentary? If you think its weird, tell me why?
As a background, I had a female on-line friend who offered to do this for me a few years back (I never asked) and I found it a complete turn-on in a sexy charming way. Neither one of us were hurt or creeped out, and she impressed me with her confidence in her femininity. We are still friends and laugh about it now and then. I would love to have another woman do the same but feel incredibly self-conscious to ask. I'm not a creepy guy, just intrigued by the gesture. thoughts?
Update: As an update: I'm not talking about meeting someone today and he asks you to give him your panties tomorrow. We are talking about cultivating a relationship (albeit online, phone before meeting) after 3 months. wouldn't you find a trust level by then?
11 months ago
Honest answer! I agree , you have to really get a good feel for the person before doing anything as bold. - 11 months ago
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No because no matter what explanation he tries to give it's still going to be creepy. He might not be a creepy person, but that's the way he would come off and I would have no choice but to think he was like that.
Even after three months of talking with him via the net and phone. Wouldn't you think you knew what kind of feelings or person he is? At what point is something cute and sexy with one person yet still creepy with another? You date a guy for three months and he asks you that, you don't think he's creepy. You are dismissing the fact you've taken time to know him and he of you. He is normal, nice, smart funny. why is it creepy still? - 11 months ago
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Nope still creepy! You still don't ask someone that if you've been friends with them for 3 months. That's something only for your man. Just because you know someone doesn't mean they can't be considered creepy, especially if they are asking something creepy. - 11 months ago
People can FAKE their identities on the internet guy. its called anonymity.
How do you think pedophiles get to lure 14 year old girls at the park to rape/f***/kill the sh*t out of em. To kidnap or take for ransom, etc etc. they can fake being a "friend" on the internet for months, even years, its not unheard of.
What you are asking is extremely creepy because of what anonymous user said here... Stop being a creeper, its a road that leads to a dead end.. in LIFE. D: (dramatic() - 11 months ago
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JUST- HUH??? If a 25 year old woman is answering the question (say thumbelina did earlier), what does your rant about 14 year old kids have to do with it??? Your arguement has no merit as I've asked the GAG members and guests individually. As far as I see, each person here has answered for themselves. Most wouldn't. GREAT. To add your little rants and innuendo based on NO FACTS of my question leads you to be discredible with any value of response. KEEP to the FACTS- don't assume a story! - 11 months ago
You asked if "send your sexy panties (perhaps new with a hint of your favorite perfume, but definitely NOT dirty) to a gentleman you met online IF HE ASKED YOU TO?" that's creepy LOLOL
Why would you ask that, are you a pedophile/panty fetish wierdo?
As for the the "female on-line friend who offered to do this for me a few years back" that's weird too lol. I can't believe ud accept that but to each his/her own right. to me, that's creepy. Why don't you send her YOUR underwear too? She wouldn't accept cuz - 11 months ago
And its creepy to give a woman money to dance naked for you. You don't know where that ass has been. Why don't you dance for her? you don't because its creepy! :) Anything can be made creepy, its all relative. Who are you to judge what two people do that is consenting?! It doesn't fit your arguement of little kids so you just call it creepy??!! you might want to think about things the next time you encounter a sensual situation. Chances are you are being the hypocrite creep. - 11 months ago
Actually strip clubs can be creepy, if ur a creepy guy paying hundreds of dollars for lapdances and such... but its not necessarily creepy lol, get yo facts straight buddy. I bet uve never even been to one haha and for that "sensual sensation"..... I'm feeling it right now.. you're making me sooo wet omg D: - 11 months ago
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Oh!! I get it it now.. if JustDance deems it creepy, it must be so! I'll end it with this: if creepy is unknown sexual prowling of any sort, than anyone who's ever one night standed with a virtual stranger or someone they just met that night, you are a CREEP! Using your arguement: anyone is a creep if they're luring a victim to be raped or killed. Date Rape isn't unheard of. How does a girl know your intentions? Dude, sex with strangers is weird and creep, JD! You would never, right? LMAO - 11 months ago
Anything anyone says is THEIR opinion. Of course anything I "deem creepy" IS creepy... to myself. Of course others may agree with me, or disagree with me(that's you buddy!). Stop being a wierdo trying to fire up an argument on GAG, its not like you are going to win.
I am such a good debator. Some call me the Master Debator. :D - 11 months ago
PS. This is what the alphabet would look like if they eliminated Q and R. PSS. You are putting words in my mouth, just don't expect to put ur dick in it too. :O - 11 months ago
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No matter what you say or what your intentions are, I will always think something like that is creepy. It is too intimate a gesture to exchange between internet friends/acquaintances/crushes/whatever.
Fair enough. We are all different. Just for clarification, we met on the internet and have become "real" friends. Thanks for answering! - 11 months ago
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I think that should only be shared between lovers. Scent is very personal. So even if you have become friends, it would still be too intimate an exchange. - 11 months ago
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Very true, and I respect that! :) Great answer. - 11 months ago
Its always going to be strange, simply because its the internet.
Ultimately, it all comes down to the fact that the internet is anonymous. As far as you know, this women could be a 40 year old bloke that wants to explore his feminine side, or a 10 year old kid that is having a lark with you. You can never actually know, and I can assure it happens a lot more regularly that you'd imagine.
To be honest, if you comfortable with that sort of exchange, maybe you should just meet up with this women. Wouldn't that be a better way of getting closer?
We did meet. Years ago. She was a completely normal woman. Its not about the unknown, its about the daring fun of something unknown. I would NEVER ask a strange woman for something like that. But I am curious at what level would a woman feel comforatble doing it with a man they've met thru the internet. There is a trust level that must be crossed. For the woman who sent me hers, it was 3 months. I'm curious to ask a bunch of females if they are willing to answer. - 11 months ago
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lmfao.. its not worth the shipping and handling whatsoever for a creepy starnger asking for that
Read the words being used. Not once is the word stranger used. In fact, the hypothetical talks about getting to know the person "a bit of time".. your ASSUMPTION is what time frame-10 minutes, a day?? I stated it happened to me a few years back. Nowhere did I say how long our internet chat lasted before this. In fact, 3 months and we had got to know each other, became friends. Says a lot about you and your perverted ways when you use a phrase like "creepy stranger". Read before commenting. - 11 months ago
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Hey buddy. just because you talk to a person online and "get to know them" doesn't EVER mean 100% that that is who that person is in Real life. you could be a 30 year old guy hitting on a teenager for all we know. there's million of examples and every one concludes that those 2 people are strangers. Period.
And yes you are creepy. ask someone you know in REAL LIFe for her "sexy panties" is she gonna be like sure? or be freaked the f*** out.
You are being creepy. and you are a stranger to her. - 11 months ago
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Let me help you READ. A woman, not a kid, not child, a WOMAN offered to send me HER panties after 3 months.. THREE1,2,3 of chatting and TALKING on the phone. not exactly strangers! This notion of 30 year old hitting on a teenager is YOUR creation. Deal with the FACTS of the story. And yet you call me creepy for something I've never done!! READ and stop ASSUMING. This WOMAN offered and sent them; I never asked for them! Get off your high school soapbox, follow along, or don't comment. - 11 months ago
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She might have saturated it in AIDS. GL buddy - 11 months ago
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And every letter you get in the mail might have anthrax in it!! Extreme outcomes are easy to charge because the possibility could always existBUT highly unlikely. Come on, you have no basis for your arguement other than the preceived notion you carried into it. You never read what I said and just tried to convince yourself that your bias was a legit counterpoint. And the best you could come up with is saturated with AIDS?? Do us all a favor and don't join the debate club! - 11 months ago
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Lol.. it was a joke buddy chill CHILL.
god you need to relax and stop tryig to find a fight man. is this how you let go of ur bottled up anger? Over the internet? Sereeuzlee. Chill the F down. all I'm saying is that the action that you do are creepy in my perspective as well as pretty much everyone else here LOL. Doesn't that tell you something - 11 months ago
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What action did I "do"? I have never done a thing. It was a question posed with a background of what a FEMALE sent me. "Sereezuslee" are you that stupid? Three times now I've had to explain what most people understood in one shot. Yet you continue to think I'm looking for approval from you, the rest. I respect peoples answers, I don't respect being called a Creeper when its based on factless comments. The one looking for a fight is..you. It was a call out to female answerers. - 11 months ago
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Fact: You are a creep. Myth: You are boyfriend material. Fact: I wrote it like this "Sereeuzlee". Not "Sereezuslee". why would you quote something made up? :]
Get your facts straight, YO! :D - 11 months ago
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LMAO whatever you say little man. Are you even old enough to get into a drinking establishment? YO? What are you ,a little small town wannabe some 15 years behind the pop vernacular? Must be a midwesterner, they think Nirvana is still popular and Snoop dogg is a new rapper.. good luck son! - 10 months ago
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CHILLAX buddy! I was just f***in with ya. :] Don't need to get all upset and angry............... and what's up with the assumptions? lol do you think I'm redneck? ahahahahahaha! - 10 months ago
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