Ignore the hot one and go for the ugly one?

i hate this question

Nooo. That kinda makes you a douche an tha "ugly" one will feel soo bad when she finds out. Don't do tht it's sooo mean

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This is inappropriate on so many levels. Just ask out the girl you find attractive. It's that simple.

haha funny show and lots of attention boys are so reta... special sometimes

GROW THE FUCK UP.

It would probably make me jealous but I would stand down for my FRIEND, assuming that I have any backbone and pride at all ((which I do, but according to your updates, that girl sadly doesn't))

don't do that. not only will the "ugly" one get hurt and feel terrible but if the "hot" one didn't know that you were trying to make her jealous, she'll feel like second best or she'll be mad that you hurt her friend or made her friend feel bad and just think of you as a jerk. Don't use the "ugly" girl just to get to the "hot" girl

this is a bit of a weird question, and I wouldn't have minded answering it if you weren't being such a D*ckhead. "Where the f*** are my men? I asked for men answering this question not dumb chicks"

it's not like you could get the hot girl anyway, considering you attitude.

NO! never do that. that would hurt the " ugly" ones feelings. making her self-conscious and unconfident.

Funny how a guy who feels the need to exploit girls,is calling one chick ugly and the other hot.If you're so good looking why can't you just get the hot girl?
Try lowering your standards

Pfft, even if it would make her jealous, most pretty girls wouldn't compete with the fat/ugly friend for a guy just out of pride. She'll figure, "I liked him, but he has terrible taste in girls. Why would I bother?"

if she's shallow it would work (but you would be a jackass) however if she's a nice decent person then it wouldn't because she would be happy for her friend not jealous. it all depends who you want to attract.

make them both feel good. Make your intentions known of who you want. But flirt with them both, we like to be made to feel good, our friends too.

nope cause ur only gonna p*ss her off and make her feel bad about herself/ insecure.

Unfortunately, this ABSOLUTELY WORKS with many beautiful women!

Attractive women are used to receiving attention and being the "star" of their little group. However, when someone isn't fawning all over them, they tend to sub-consciously do what is necessary to get the person's attention because it is damaging to their ego and also makes them curious.

The key is to open the conversation with the unattractive girl, so the attractive girl is a little curious by you and then when she doesn't feel threatened by you or think that she is the prize, you have brought her defenses down to the point where when you engage in the conversation, she'll be more receptive to what you have to say because you're not all over her like EVERY OTHER GUY.

The thing that you need to look at for is that this tends to work with girls who are INSECURE and really crave attention because it is all about them and their ego. These girls may be fun to hook up with, but may not necessarily make for the best girlfriends because it is an endless stream of them trying to prove their hot.

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congratz on asking thiis a lot of guys don't have the guts and I read the comments and honestly I don't understand y all these women are like you a55
or whateva
well usually if you go for the girl you actually think is hot then it works better

lols be nicer to her than you are hear okay lols

okay, I can respect your question, this is probably one of the most thought of questions in the entire planet (probably) but nobody has the balls to ask. so more power to you.
i would never ask this question personally, because, one I don't have balls, and two, truthfully, I mean I think that if you really wanted the girl to go out with you, I don't think you should hit on the "ugly" girl, because that would just leave you un-attainable. do you know what I mean? I mean, sure we girls are really catty, and all and all bitchy, I can admit it, but its not like we are always vindictive and bitchy about everything, so if you show interest in some other girl then the girl will obviously think that you actually like this girl then she will lost interest...i don't know it may be just me, it obviously worked for you, but I just felt the need to reply to this question
anyways, but seriously, for other girls, I don't think you should go straight to trying to make her jealous. try a more subtl approach if you know what I mean ;D

She'd probably be kinda stunned and say oh well his lose :P wow you sound like such a arrogant player ...

hahhahah this is all comedic gold x)

Youre a **** and give a bad name to men. I hope love bites you in the ass, and you are lonely for the rest of your life. Do you even care how the girl is gonna feel? No you only think with your dick.

works like a champ!

no either way both girls are going to get hurt

noo just goo ask the one you like the most out

You're probably gay and trying to cover it up, "sweetheart"...

if you have to get the other girl jealous, that's just pathetic. but do whatever.

Let me tell you...When you're a good looking girl, you know it. You hear it all the time, you know your own strengths and weaknesses etc.
So if a good looking girl is with her "ugly friend"...she already knows that she's prettier. And if you go for her less attractive friend - there's no competition started - that's just YOUR bad taste in chicks.
And when the prettier girl realizes you have bad taste she ALSO realizes that she can do better than you. Not to mention that any respectable girl will feel happy for her friend (ugly or not) if she gets approached. So if she's willing to dethrone her good friend for the sake of some random guy, I would really start to rethink wanting to get into anything with a girl so manipulative.

no way.

Thats so stupid and mean!Youre forgetting that their friends and the "ugly one" may have feelings too! No girl wants to feel used, ugly or pretty!And if the hot girl did go for you after you dumped her friend, then what the hell does that say about her!This is a stupid strategy and its going to fall right in front of your face!If it does work then both chicks are a couple of mindless bimbos!

Hmmmmm... A guy did that to me recently,Im considered the hotter friend in the group and went straight to my best friend who he later told me he thought was ugly and was using her to get to me. If this "hot" girl is actually friends with the "ugly" girl... Good luck mate. Its going to go down really badly with both of them. I went nowhere near the guy,his loss... Oh and I just read that it worked... Well the hot girl is obviously horrendously mean and needs to get a life.

I think I understand. So you are too ugly to get a hot girl right off the bat. Instead you have to try and make her jealous by using her unattractive friend. Am I right? Yeah. I thought so too.

The thing is, any girl who does get jealous like that of her friend and disregards any of her feelings and goes after you, can't be that pretty. And I mean on the inside. And don't feed me any bull saying you don't care about a girls personality, because every guy does.

So go ahead and use girls and continue being a complete douche, I can guarantee you'll never get a good girl. Anyone with brains will see right through your shallow self. You might be happy just having sex right now, but one day, when you'll want a real relationship, you're going to have to settle for the ugly, mean girls.. Because that's all that will want you.

SO, next time you get the urge to use a girl, I dare you to come after me or anyone like me. You'll be rejected so fast you won't know what hit you. And don't even try to use the jealousy bit, because no one would even care.

Have a nice day.

Wow you sound a lot like guys that I know but they respect me because they know id kick their ass hahaha jp well actualy no I'm not. But hey do what you want if their wasnt hoes out their that will F anyone then nobody will ever get to notice who the real chicks are so I appreciate every girl out their that has sex with anything with a pulse lol

Even if this question was built to annoy people then why did you do it either way your still a jerk for doing this question. I mean you could have quite easily have written it in a different manor to still get your pointless 'point' across, so regardless if you meant this question or not your still an annoying nuisance in my book.

you're a jerk. how could you think of using the other girl? how would she feel? maybe she'll even rat on you for being such an asshole. den your chances w. the hot chick may as well be gone. just be yourself and approach the hot chick. don't use other people to get what you want. that is despicable.

You----"I asked for guys to answer not dumb chicks' hmm okay, nevermind I won't waste anymore time..

WTF? I'm always the hot girl but when someone I'm intersted in talk to another girl and she's ugly to! for sure I get jealus, but I won't talk to him ever again bcuz I won't sleep with a guy that slept with my ugly friend before me, I won't be his second choice or the other one, for me I'm the hottest and when he go and sleep with an ugly girl I'll go get the hottest guy and sleep with him and somehow let him knw, and then wish he enjoyed his night with the ugly girl, because probebly I would be enjoyed mine=D, so sleep with the hot girl, and then try to sleep with ugly one, because then the ugly gurl would defo go for it, because then she'll think or wanna be something like the hot girl she'll feel that you make her pretty!
its kinda complicated but hey GIRLS ARE COMPLICATED:D

ok, most "hot" girls (or beautiful girls) don't really know they are hot. in fact, most of us feel like 'uglies' most of the time, unless we're dressed to the nines, wearing nice clothes, etc. so, I don't think you'll make her jealous, you might just hurt her and cause her to be self conscious. you'd also be hurting the other one you're using, so its a bad idea. just go for who you want in the first place.

Haha I wish you wasn't anonymous-you've ruffled a lot of feathers-love it lol. If you just want a f*** then yeh defo go to the uglier one because (if you are hot) it will defo make her jealous and want you more. I'm assuming you're not after a long term relationship here. Anyway, well done for p*ssing peeps off lol it was funny to read.

That's a horrible and really stupid idea. Guys who do that kind of thing are jerks.

If she's a jerk like you she will be jealous... if she's a good person, she will never date you because you just attracted her friend!

i hate what you are saying.the hot one shpould like you for who you r.

Your one hell of a prick, are you trying to maybe prove a point? From comments I've read by you here, your just trying to prove that your question is getting a lot more answers than other maybe nicer ones.

And if your question is actually true then your an even bigger idiot, so you don't want a relationship your after sex right? It sounds to me like your trying to get it from people who would prefer relationships, which is how you intend on getting what you want yes? It shouldn't work unless of course the girls are after the same thing off you or they are both plain stupid... but then that's probably what you find attractive right, stupid people so you can have your 'wicked way' with them without much of a problem? You're kinda harsh if you can't think of other people's feelings as well as yours. Why do you have to target friends anyways, there are probably plenty of other 'ugly' girls you can flaunt in the 'hot' girls face if that'd how you want to play it.

One of your updates implying that all girls are stupid and the same? Thanks for that... and sure, I don't always stick to what I say I am going to do but when it counts the most I do, when it comes to friends and family and I'm sure it's the same with a good portion of people answering you and sticking up for what they believe in. I hope you become impotent, it's the best thing that will ever happen to people like you - the wording here is awesome.

One last thing... anyone who is a virgin doesn't mean they haven't been out with girls before you twat, they may have more common sense and are waiting for more than just sex. Also, nice guys do get a chance with girls more so relationship wise than people like you, you know it is possible for you to be played by a girl for the one 'most important thing' as well. Girls want relationships with nice guys... I mean not necessarily the nicest people ever but at least blokes that don't see women as objects like you do.

You might as well just talk to the hot chick. She might be just as desperate as you are.

No don't make it all confusing. You might hurt the ugly girl..even though it's bad enough saying she's ugly here..not a very good friend.
No just go for what you want. Makes it all easy.

sweetheart..karma's a bitch you proably won't get both in the end lmao

seriously, this guy is just trying to get us all riled up. he just wants attention because he's a f*cking cocker spaniel and he's tired of jacking off to photos of jessica alba.
just ignore the prick. he's gonna do what he's gonna do and eventually he'll realize that no one gives a flying f*ck about him except his mother.

First of all, you're a jerk. Did you even think of how the 'ugly' girl would feel after you used her. And, btw, just because she may be less attractive than other girl, doesn't make everyone else better than her. Have you ever thought to look at a girls personality and not there looks?
Also, I wouldn't feel jealous that you were flirting with the other girl...if anything, I would feel sorry for her, that she 'attracted' someone like you.

it could work, but if they are close friends, the hot girl might not go for a guy that her friend likes

So, you're using a less attractive girl to get back at a very attractive girl?

How old are you? Do you have any idea how immature and pathetic that is? You're the type of guy that every girl hates. Or at least makes us hate men because of this kind of crap you pull. That's shallow and low and you're going to hurt someone that thinks you're interest in her just for your own amusement.

If you want to go for the hotter chick, grow a backbone and talk to her. People who are less attractive are people too. Actually, in most cases, unattractive people are sometimes more of a person than the pretty ones. You're just too much of an asshole to see that.

And for your information you whole "respect" argument, the only reason that girls may appear to not want respect, is because at first, they confuse your arrogance with confidence. Then they realize their mistakes and move on to someone who will actually treat them right. I mean, if you were actually so great and confident, you would just walk up to the hot girl and talk to her, right? I mean, you can't even do that without using another person to make yourself feel better. Seriously, if you actually had the confidence and self assurance, you wouldn't have posted this question on here asking us to help make decisions for you.

Honestly, grow up, stop being a dick and treat people with the respect they deserve.

I would get major jealous. It would work. Hard to admit, but true.

Someone needs to grow up.
Did you ever consider that some people may consider the "ugly" one hotter than the supposed "hotter" one? I don't see jealousy in this except you making yourself out to be a dumbass. Great job.

lol I would probably see right through your strategy and just ignore you 4ever, like I do to all guys who try to make me jealous---just makes me move on faster.

Why play with the ugly girl like that? Just because she's less attractive doesn't mean she's any less of a person. You might not care about people now but trust me, karma has a way of returning what you do to people back to you. She might really get her hopes up and get hurt. If you can't get the hot girl straight up then you don't need her anyway.

The hot girl isn't going to feel the need to compete with the ugly one. She knows she's hot, she knows the other girl is no competition. Your logic is off. Also most girls who think highly of themselves are not gonna want sloppy seconds. If you talk to her friend why would she want you? Man up and go after what you really want instead of using unattractive girls as pawns. If you have game you wouldn't need to do that

Also do you really think you are the only guy in the world? Newsflash a hot girl gets bullsh*t like this daily. Most likely she will be able to tell what you're doing and write you off anyway. If she wants you she could have you so if you have to do all that to get her, its not in the cards sweetie

From what you have said so far I don't believe this case is real..you're either really bored or a complete asshole...if you're the asshole then I hope you learn your lesson some day.
Also why are you asking for advise if you're putting down what everyone is saying?

ASSHOLE! first of all teasin her friend is not an attractive quality. You go straight for her. That's an awful thing to do to use another girl to get someone elses attention

First off, you're an asshole, and every girl on the planet, hot and ugly is too good for you. so maybe you should give up. Second, if you were a hot guy at a bar and you went for my friend I wouldn't even think twice about you because I love my friends and I will never try to go for their guy. So, no, going for my friend will not make me jeolous, it will turn me off. And yes, I am telling the truth becasue I have been in this situation before.

this ladies and gentleman is the PERFECT example of a JERK!
i hope that one day your ugly, and the ugly girl is pretty and she can laugh in your face!
even though I want that to happen, I'll still pray for you, not that you care.

i no you don't want girls to answer this but...im usually the hotter chick and if a guy went up 2 one of my friends id say "what the f*** is he takling to her for?!", get jealous, and wonder if I look like sh*t that night, but that's ONLY if the guys is just as good looking as I am...if he's not attractice then I won't get jealous or care..either way if you talk to one of my friend there is NO WAY I'm talking to you after that ...it would start WAY to much drama, and more likely then not the "ugly" girl will think I'm tryin to "steal" you away...thats happened way to many times before in my experience, and its not worth it...if you want to get with her talk to ALLL her friends BUT her..that would make her more jealous..dont single ONE friend out because you are more likely to ruin your chances because she will think you actaully are into the girl..and like I said most girls won't touch you with a 10 foot pole once they think that (or at least the respectable ones)

yeah good luck with any girl...once they see through you they're going to hate you. you don't sound like the hot kind of cocky, you sound like the arrogant prick kind.

Messy morals aside, these girls are friends right? They talk. If you lead the "ugly" girl on and then start making moves on her friend...see where I'm going with this? Unless the girl you have your eyes on is a completely shallow idiot, she will know something is up and I could only imagine what self esteem issues she must have if she would make time with someone who would so something so underhanded.

Your stupidity will probably shine through from the get go. You won't get the ugly girl even if you hit on her. And no girl in her right mind would be jealous that a guy like you didn't go for her; we'd be thankful instead.

No...by doing that you will lead the "ugly" one on, and then the two girls will have a huge fight when they realize you are into the "hot" one. It isn't a good idea at all unless you plan on ripping up a friendship and getting with neither of them.

well I might wonder like ha? why? that's just how it is, but if you start after that flirting with me chance are I wouldn't flirt back or do anything about it. Because you went after my friend first, then me? that's just not cool, and if she happens to like you, I would just think your are a jerk for flirting with me! I think if you like her, just go after the hot girl, don't play around with her friends. b.c. if they really are good friends, you will lose your chances with her.

Asshole indeed, yeah bud that's exactly what the girl in question will think if she finds out. That kinda sh*t is for boys. Step into the realm of the grown men. Now a sista ain't knocking you for handling your biz, but there are far more classier ways to get to the cat. Get my drift. Think about it for a sec, would'nt the encounter lead to other encounters if you find out she wants somethng casual too. Think of having your cake and eating it too.

i don't know how other chicks work but if someone had started hitting on my friend I wouldve given her a big grin and excused myself so yall could be alone. I'm not ever gonna step on her toes if someone wants to talk to her because I can always walk across the room and find someone to talk to. and chicks are pretty protective of their friends by the way. just because she may not get as much attention we won't consider her ugly. I love my best friend to death and I think she's gorgeous despite the fact I'm never with out a boyfriend

girl don't work like that.
and no one's p*ssed at you, we just think you're stupid.
and not many people are giving you attention because you asked this question, but what are you? a cocker spaniel? are you really that starved for attention?

it won't work because if the two are friends, then the hotter one wouldn't compete because unlike you, she RESPECTS her friend. also, why would a hot girl be jealous of her ugly friend just because you're fawning over her?

Well this isn't very nice. Ugly people are people too! They have feelings. It is wrong to use the other girl as a ploy to get her friend.

depends on the environment, I feel inner city girls have more pride and aggression verse somebody from the countryside, and for girls in the burbs... they can be either extreme

This entire discussion is hilarious. As for the best strategy, it depends on the girls.

A. If the hot girl likes competing with her friends, then feign interest in the ugly one so the hot one can "steal" you from her so-called friend. Unfortunately even if this works, you are now stuck with a bitchy, backstabbing, insecure hot girl. I don't actually consider this a victory, but if you're into that, go for it.

B. If the hot girl and ugly girl are actual friends, strategy A could get you into trouble, especially when they talk to each other about you. Hit on the hot girl but be respectful to the other one and for f***'s sake, stop calling her ugly. Nobody likes someone who's cruel to her friends.

I've used strategy B to great success on several occasions.

lol weird question but more stupid I think
approach the one your interested in because if the ugly girl as you call her lol gets interested in you then the hot one won't want to no , she's not gona want to hurt her mate !

so go the way you mean to go :D

this has been one of the most contraversial conversation topics I've seen on this site. definently a good read lol. while it would be using the other chick for personal gain, which isn't the most admirable behavior. but on the other hand, psychology is an interesting vice. manipulating a situation is never easy. definently an interesting tactic you have : ) I personally just try to see what's up with the girl I like directly, but that's just me. I've never tried the jealousy tactic. but either way, I hope your end results are satisfactory : ) good luck lol

Jeez! Doesn't personality count for anything? If I knew the pretty one was a witch, I'd go for the ugly chick instead. Bad tastes? Nope, it's called wisdom. Ugly girls can be the best lovers in the world too. No point in dating a hot witch is there? Gotta go with what works best. Believe me, I know what it's like to be ignored over someone who's better looking.

Back in my college days, I hung out at a bar & grill with a teammate of mine who was a very tall and great looking guy. Three hotties approached him(ignoring me completely) and offered to buy him a drink. He agreed on condition that they also buy me a drink. All three girls looked at me as though I was the Awful-Green-Slime-From-Mars, glanced at each other and walked out on both of us. Talk about a &$%#@ feeling, I could have killed all three of them had I carried my Glock on me and not in my car that day.

Understand the moral of the story? I hope so.

dude if there both friends don't you think maybe the hotter one will give th eother girl space and let her have a guy? not everyone needs to compete all the time. just go for the one you actualy like, it will give you the best chance

HA. this is probalby an old question, but I' mgonna answer it anyways. GO FOR THE HOT ONE! Going for the ugly one might make the hot one just leave you. Girls don't chase guys, guys chase girls. Go for the hot one directly and don't look back unless you get rejected.