How do I get that guy (who is a friend) to like me back? I think I met the girl he MAY like yesterday but I can't be sure. The trick is how do I do it without being too forward and obvious!? How do I get him to like ME instead of HER?
Update: OK, BIT of a misunderstanding, sorry. I am really good FAMILY FRIENDS with this guy so I can't just 'go on dates' with him neither will I hook up with him. I just need to know how to SHOW him I like him without being blatently* obvious!
6 months ago
Update: OK so guess what I just found out. He doesn't like her but he is going to the formal with another girl. I don't know who asked who or anything or WHOS formal but, yeah... I saw him on Monday and he barely looked at me let along spoke to me. What's wrong!
6 months ago
Sorry but if I'm into a girl, I'm into her. And it that were the case you aren't gonna be able catch my attention until she's out of my system or does something to turn me off. I guess you can always try though. If he's not seeing her yet you can always just be open with him. Tell him how you feel about him. If there is a chance that he felt that way about you at some point it may rekindle an interest to hear you come out to him about your feelings. But I gotta tell ya. Still a long shot. If he reciprocates, and does indeed show interest in you, I recommend you go on a few dates with him to make sure you like him or that he likes you. Sort of a test. Otherwise I predict it will end badly.
So I gave you an option to try. Remember though it's still a real long shot. Still worth trying though. If he shoots you down, remember that it's not the end of the world, and who knows he may come around.
Hon, I'm not sure you ever laid it out for him how you felt about him. If you took my advice and told him I figure that would have helped, if you ignored it and tried to be subtle about it, beating around teh bush and all of that then I can tell you what is wrong already...
So did you tell him flat out how you felt about him already? If so then I'd just have to be harsh here and tell you that he's plainly not that into you. Sad but it's likely true. If that's the case then nothing is... - 6 months ago
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Wrong with you. It's probably just that he didn't feel the same way. You're still the same girl you always were. Which is probably awesome for all I know. But don't beat yourself up over this.
Now.... tell me something. Did you tell him how you felt about him before he went off with some other girl? - 6 months ago
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I'm checking back on some of my old answers. Doing a follow up.
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Maybe you should send flirty vibes if you're not already. Dress a little cuter when you hang out and be slightly more flirtier to spark his interest. If that doesn't work then I don't know what to tell ya
I don't know if there is a trick to that. Liking is base on attraction. If he is not attract to you before then I don't know if he ever going to like you back. My advice is just be yourself and don't pretend to be someone you'll not. Also never sleep with the guy and hope that he's going to like you back. I saw many girls did that and they just end up as sleeping buddy. Be yourself is the best tool here. now if he is going to like you because of you.
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