Everyone thinks I am a big flirt.... please help me!

I would say your behavior looks pretty much like flirting to me. Lots of girls are "reserved" because they don't want to be hit on all the time, so anyone who is really friendly looks flirty in comparison, from a guy's point of view. Even if you don't mean it, it looks like that to them, and confronting them won't help, if they really think that of you. Lots of guys have problems making the difference between friendly and flirty. As sad as it sounds, if you have a problem with the "reputation" you have, then you just have to change your behavior. Even if you tell them you don't mean it like that, others will still see you the same as they did and you won't have solved your problem.

it sounds like they liked you but got their hopes up thinking you were interested and are now bitter. if you are truly flirtatious to many guys you probably should tone it down. ask people who are close to you if you are honestly like that. but the guys may be just talking crap because they're jealous. if its that then don't change. I have a friend like you and her personality is great! I admire that in people, the ability to just make friends and be outgoing like that.

im the same way...i tend 2 laugh at jokes and I'm really nice 2 every1 so...i guess that's bad...so wen they all talk about me I just say well it doesn't hert 2 have friends...just because you think I'm flirting doesn't mean I am...let it go...but be rude...these guys don't know what ur relationship is

I don't know if I would confront them. They are going to think what they are going to think, I would just tone it down around the guys from now on.

well first of all, I think people really assume somebody's a flirt if they're just confident. and two, I don't think you should change yourself unless YOU want to change something because you felt like it not because of some jealous kids. you could just ask those dudes why they feel like you are how they said. but ya know there will always be people to want to bring you down so...pick your battles.

on the other hand you said yourself that you are "just extremely friendly" so maybe just an average friendly with guys ya know like if you are flippin hair, finger combing your hair, giggly, leaning in on them, or something silly like that then yeah-that I think is flirty.

but overall personally, it sounds kinda high school like those guys probably just want to date you and are jealous. there are people who never get out of the highschool mentality. so just keep your head up lady :)