So there's this guy who is like my best friend. He calls me every night. And we talk for like 2 or 3 hours. He tells me EVERYTHING and is always telling me how I'm the only person he can trust with his heart. He is popular, so like 200 girls (not kidding) like him. I am a loser in school. So NO ONE likes me.
Anyway, I think I like him, because I am always thinking about him. But when I see him, I don't get that crazy feeling like I did with all the other people I used to like. The thing is though, I feel like I CANT like him because he trusts me so much. I don't know if he likes me or if I like him. PLEASE help me!
If he is making the effort to talk to you, odds are he likes you at least a little bit. And if this is every night for that long, I'd say it is a considerable amount.
Well for starters, build your confidence more. You said that you're sure that you're a loser at your school and if that's what you think about yourself then you need to work on yourself before you get involved in a relationship.
If you want to know how he feels about you just ask him. Get THE bottom line of how he feels towards you. I think that he does if he's calling you every night and you talk for hours. Just don't depend on him to make you feel better about yourself because if you two were to go out and then break up that will lead to some serious emotional scarring. So basically, once you're secure in how you feel about yourself then go after the guy. He sounds great because of the ways that he's showing how he cares about you but at this point in your life you've got to be focusing on who you are rather than some guy that won't matter 20 years from now.
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