Guys: would you talk and joke with a girl if.....?

Yes, I would talk and joke around with her. Interested or not. If she's cool, and she's the type of girl I can talk and joke around with, sure why not?

If he talks and jokes with everyone, then it doesn't mean anything. If he only talks and jokes with girls he likes or thinks is cool (which would be like 50% of guys I'd say) then it means he is at least cool with you and open to the idea of interest in you, if not interested already.

I like to talk and joke with everyone, so I do talk and joke with girls I'm not into (and even girls I wouldn't ever be into).

It depends. If I knew her, but I didn't know she liked me, I would talk to her like anyone else. I probably wouldn't joke around, it just depends on the conversation. If I liked her, I definitely would, but If I didn't like her, I wouldn't. It's different if I knew she liked me, because if I liked her and knew she liked me, I would do all sorts of stuff, like flirt, tease, have make fun of, look at her, and ask her out. But if I didn't like her and she liked me, like I said, it depends on the situation. If I saw her every once in a while, and she said hi to me, I would say hi back. If she started talking to me, I would talk to her like I would anyone else. There's no reason to be mean by possibly leading her on. If the girl was constantly following me around, like I've had happen before, I wouldn't say anything to her unless she started talking to me first, and give her subtle, easy hints that I'm not interested in her that way, but not be mean, like say, "I don't like you, now stay away from me." I've seen guys do that before and it's just evil and inconsiderate of the girls' feelings. I don't ike being mean because I've been hurt that way, so I know what it feels like to be in that position. There was a girl who was on and off with me for over a year, and the longer it lasts, the more it hurts when you find out, so I don't lead peope on.

I would talk and joke around with any girl that I sympathise with, just being good acquaintances would be enough, no feelings needed; I would keep out of her way only if I had something against her.(antipathy, a quarrel)

I wouldn't. To me, sex is no laughing matter. It's better than that.

Sure, I talk and flirt to girls I'm not interested in romantically. It's friendly, it's fun, and honestly it's just my nature. Everyone is different, but I tend to be very outgoing.

Well, with that general of a question here's what pertains to me:
I would talk with the female as long as she wasnt annoying/dorky etc whether or not I was interested. The big key to conversating with me is that you must be able to invite me to continue talking and also be able to hold a conversation - whether changing subjects or whatever it doesn't matter, I can definately keep up. I wouldn't speak with a woman that is as follows:
Her: *snort* "Hi" *Giggle*
Me: "Hello" *Knod & walk by*

If she approached me a different way, like maybe somewhat shy and wanted to know me or something it would be different:
Her: "Hi" (with visible signs she is shy -- head into chest, shoulders forward etc)
Me: "Hey, how is your day going"
Her: "Good" (Loosens up)
Me: "Right on, so do you like how sunny it is today?"
... (continued)

It really depends on the individuals, and this also includes rude people where I ask them how they are doing and they go "Good" then look the other way, ill simply be like "Hellz Yeahz" and keep walking.


There are several "general" classes of males (as best as you can put it) With each different group of males there are different personality traits that can generally be stereo-typed
Geek/Shy - Won't talk with women or men unless it is a subject they know about
Uncomfortable/Busy - Generally will keep conversation short showing they don't have interest
Laid Back - Will comonly talk with females, but the further interactions will come more difficult-like
Average Guy - Will probably say hi and move on
Player - Will keep a conversation interested or not, tries to make other women jealous but at the same time for his own benefit - not to make women jealous, it just happens ^_^
BA / Bad Boy - will generally consider conversations a waste of time and that all the talking should be kept to a minimum unless it regards Sex, Drugs, or rock and roll

Obviously the "general" groups section is very vague and probably only 60% correct, but as you can see, there are different ways to perceive people.. The best way to be able to tell for yourself is just gain the confidence to approach someone and try to talk with them about anything other than flirting. I.e. "Hey! How are you doing?" will commonly get people talking... Or you could say a pickup line etc - coming from girls they are generally unheard and can make it very easy to "break the ice"

Good luck~
ArtistBBoy

yes they joke around and talk to you and even sleep with you even if they don't like you at all..