I see this guy whenever I go to my favorite coffee shop during my lunch break (he works there) and here is what's happened do far:
-at first I'd catch him staring at me and one time I caught him looking at me from over the coffee machine and he quickly looked down
-he began teasing me every time I came in and he'd tell his co-workers things like "her looks are deceiving" or "she's evil", which is the opposite of me
-he takes forever to hand me my order (delays handing me my straw in a teasing way while staring me in the eyes, grinning)
-one time we randomly passed each other in town and he gave me the biggest smile with a "hey. "
-last time I walked into the coffee shop he just started talking to me about how he saw me at school the other day and that he didn't know we go to the same college. I asked him why he didn't approach me and he said he didn't want to come off as a stalker. After a friendly convo when it was time for him to get back to work he slowly said: "Well, I guess. I'll. See you around. " His eyes didn't shift from mine until after I said "bye" and turned away.
Does he like me? I'm really curious, especially since I've been fond of him ever since I started going to that coffee shop. I think I'm really beginning to like him and I really want to know if he possibly has a thing for me too or if that's just his personality.
Slip him your number when you pay for coffee next time. Make sure it's on top so he sees it and doesn't stick it in the cash drawer! Make sure to ask if he's dating someone though. Maybe he hasn't made a move because he's taken, but still likes to flirt and fool around.
My god. Does anyone know anything about anything these days? Yes - HE LIKES YOU. It is probably not company policy to allow him to hit on you directly while working, but he is throwing all the signals he can while at work. Next time, ask him what classes and when/where and "meet" him after class. Then, you can see if he comes out with a request for a date. Better yet, I know that it isn't against company policy to receive phone numbers while at work. Give him your number and ask him to lunch at school between classes or whatever. Tell him to call when he gets off work. Don't make me come take you by the hand and walk you through the process! This is 2008! Nothing wrong with girls asking guys out! Go!
Thank you. I just wanted to make sure that I'm not taking his flirting too seriously. Some guys just have that personality and they aren't really that into you. I've had that happen to me too many times and this time I want to be extra careful. - 10 months ago
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