So at a school football game one day I saw this really cute guy. I looked at him and I noticed that he and his friend were looking at me. Month's later in gym class one day he was staring again. I looked at him and smiled. The next day, on the stairs coming out of the girl's locker room he and his friend approached me. They said nothing as if they were waiting for me to say something to them. I turned and walked away, being so nervous. (Later, I realized that they would have no reason to be going up the stairs because they don't have yoga this semester and they must've been trying to talk to me. ) I'm 15 and I still get nervous around guys. Even though I'm starting a modeling career and people say I'm gorgeous, I still have bad confidence. (I was teased as a kid) How do I just go up and talk to him?
Konvicts covered this question almost spotlessly, the only thing I'd like to add is just to get yourself comfortable with talking with people, not just so you can hook up with this guy, but just because being able to be personable and interact with people casually is extremely useful and a rarer quality than people may think.
The best way to do this is just actively pursue conversations with people you don't normally talk with.
There's no advice I can really give you to overcome your fear of talking to guys you are attracted to. Use your personal preference, you caught this guy staring at you on more than one occasion and then he walked up the stairs for the sole reason to try and start a conversation with you. Now I don't know the other details which are just as important, so I'll just assume this guy does have a crush on you but he is just a little shy with girls.
Believe me, it's nerve racking at first but on the next chance you see fit, you should go upto this guy and start a conversation. A simple "hey what's up" is good enough. You'll feel twice as better after you talk to him and your fear will just be a thing in the past. If you don't overcome your fear of this, then you could be losing the opportunity of meeting this guy.
Look at it this way. Sooner or later your going to end up facing this problem. You make the first move, or you wait for him to get the courage and break the ice. Take this into your own hands because you could end up waiting a long time for him.
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