I can't tell if my friend likes me. She is a friend I went to grad school with and we have known each other for about 7 years. We see or talk to each other maybe once a year. We recently went out for a drink and I picked up on a few signs. She played with her hair and found an opportunity to hook arms at one point. She also extended the "date" by taking me to lunch. However, at lunch the conversation turned to talk about dating and she mentioned that she didn't want to date anyone right now because she was in a place where she was all about herself right now though recently I found her profile on match. Com. Her personality is flirtatious by nature so I can't tell if it was me or her just being her. I would ask her if she were interested but in past situations when I've asked too early I've taken the surprise out of it for the girl and it freaks them out. Is my radar off here or where should I go from her?
Considering you only see each only once a year, I don't think that one lunch date would be a fair assessment as to whether this girl really likes you. If she likes you, she would make an effort to contact you more frequently (i. E. E-mails, text messages, facebook etc). If she isn't doing this. Then most likely she was just being a flirt. Considering she signaled that she is not looking to get into a relationship right now, take that as a hint that she is not interested in dating anyone (maybe she thought you were getting the wrong signals. So she decided to drop that as polite hint). As for her profile being on match. Com, many people put up profiles just to do test the waters or simply to gain comments from other people. Sometimes people are not really wanting a serious relationship. If you really like this girl, try contacting her more often (increase frequency of visits), frequency also breeds more attraction. Make the time to see each other or talk to each other more often. Good luck and I hope that helps!
The way you say she naturally flirtatious maybe she could but at the same time it looks like she does have a thing for you. But if you feel something for her then tell her or just ask her don't think about your past and just think about the present.
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