My best friend is kind of addicted to lying. She will always make plans with me and then right before we are supposed to hang out she will text me and say oh I'm to tired or oh I forgot I made plans with someone else. And I'm not the only one she does this to. But I was getting really mad about it so I stopped talking to her and just recently like the middle of February we started talking again. And everything was good until last night. When she told me that she doesn't think she wants to go to the school dance this Friday with me because she wants to do something with her mom. Ha turns out she is going shopping with some of my other friends! But when I talk to her she says my whole world does not revolve around you. And she gets mad so I can't fix things what should I do?
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Well, first of all...real friends aren't like this. If she has been blowing you off before and now you have caught her red handed then maybe you should just not talk to her at all.. until SHE gets her priorities straight. I think at this point, you should just let her be. Why? because you have tried talking to her and she seems to find that annoying and not well in her manner. She should realize that she's missing out on a great friend. You are worth so much more. But, if you still think you need to confront her, then you should go ahead and tell her that she needs to hear you out before she can say what SHE wants. And even after all the talking, she still doesn't get it then I am sorry but maybe you should just let her go as a friend until she knows wats up.
What kind of friend is that? She doesn't respect you, your plans, or your time. She thinks your world should revolve around her and her whims. I would bump her from best friend status because what kind of friend would make plans with you, only to ditch you to hang out with other girls?
Something very important, you are just friends right? I think you should open the game. Tell her that you don't like when she does this and blah blah. That doesn't mean you're not going to go out with her. But let her search for you and make the plan. So she's gonna feel free to "say"the truth or search you cause she is really interested. In case she keeps lying. Maybe you are going to discover the real reason she does that.!
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