So here's the thing. Around December my best friend got a boyfriend; the boy she had been crushing on for a few months. I was really happy for her. But after the first 2 months of having a boyfriend, she has become a completely different person. She cusses now. She breaks the school rules (no cell phones. ). She will text him while I am talking to her. Basically nothing exists except him. She always criticizes me and is putting me down, and anymore she ha nothing nice to say to me. My mom says if she is going to act that way I don't need to be talking to her. Of course, something is wrong withe ME, but I don't care because I feel better not being told my braces look stupid, or my hair is dumb. So the thing is, when she and her boyfriend break up she is going to expect me to give her sympathy. They have already had a big fight and she imed me for sympathy. I was just like, 'it'll be okay. " So when they have fights and when they break up she is going to use me for sympathy. Should I brush her off like I did before or sympathize with her?
Your mother is right, if she continues to put you down and pretend that you don't exist you should forget about her. Show her how she acts and she will see for herself. (put on a little play for her). Or record her.
Nothing is wrong with you, she's just really happy that she has a boyfriend and wants more than that. Happens to some people, they don't realize it until something happens. You should show her sympathy, but you also need to tell her how she treats you, if that doesn't work. Just walk away. You don't need friends like that.
I have come to realize, in life there are no such things as friends (just acquaintances). My ex-best friend did the same thing to me as your friend is doing to you. She had a boyfriend, she ignored me, stopped calling me, and pretended as if I didn't existed.
So talk to your friend and yes do show her some sympathy.
You should just like my mom she said there is non such things as friends. I have tried to tell her how she is acting and she says oh I'm sorry like she doesn't really mean it so I am just like forget it and I don't even talk to her much if at all. - 10 months ago
Well don't take someone putting you down. That is not a friend. If you were her friend before be her friend after. She just has Boyfriend addiction now. It fades and you will see she will change back. Boyfriends come and go but friendships last forever. No matter what. Tell her she is hurting your feelings before the breakup. But, do not tolerate her putting you down. That is just mean spirited.
I'm gonna tell you the truth cause this happen to me Hell naw don't feel sorry for her if her relationship ends with her boyfriend oh well to bad things happen. After the way she be acting towards you lately when she is around her boyfriend that's being a two face right there if I was you I would go up to her and be like " look when you needed my help I was there for you, when you was having troubles I was there for you and ever since you have a relationship with you new boyfriends you changed but it's ok I really don't care cause you just showed your true colors and what you really is I can always do better but when troubles come and you have no one to talk to don't come to me crying using me as a rebound because that's not going to happen " and there forget her cause when they brake up she not going to have nobody and when she needs someone to talk to you she will never find a friend who is exactly like you
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