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Should I give up?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 10 months ago
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Since I was little I kinda stopped believing in love or finding that "one" person, and I honestly don't believe that he exists. Or she, because I can't figure out my sexuality either and I don't want to experiment to find out because I'm too scared and I don't want to get kicked out of my family. Because of all of feelings that I want to feel towards guys I sometimes get it towards girls. I honestly don't think I'll ever experience my first kiss or anything like that. And I'm really tired of waiting and calling me a child. I should probably give up, right?

Update: I also don't feel the need to date or be with anyone, but It still bothers me. I just feel kinda of empty.    10 months ago

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ionlife (Age:36 to 45)      When: 10 months ago
Give up? Never!

I have a strong feeling that your inner emptiness has nothing to do with dating, sexuality or family. You may be looking at dating or determining your sexuality too strongly as the answer that will complete you. Dig deep down inside and find out why you are truly empty. You also need to ask yourself, are you happy with yourself? Many people are not happy with who they see themselves as and they start looking for external elements to make them happy, I. E. The boyfriend, girlfriend, religion, drugs, sex.

Find yourself first and you'll find that others will follow you into your life.
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kenzo (Age:25 to 29)      When: 10 months ago
Well if I were you I would first make my mind up about my sexuality, after that all those sweet thing you missed before will come into your way. Look this is life. And you have to get to it, so decide what is your sexuality is and then get into the sweet and sour of life. One day you are in a sweet relationship the next day you may not. So you have to be strong and to face what will come your way. If you can't do that then just give up. And only losers who give up :)
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GiJoe (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
Even though I don't know your family I imagine they would accept it. They may not understand they may hate it but they will accept it because there your family. If I was gay I would tell my family, why not after all they are your family and your family is there for support for whatever reason imaginable. The best way to tell which sexuality you want to go with is date both which one makes you feel more comfortable and above all who makes you feel more loved. The one guy or girl is out there you just have to look for him or her sometimes. Never give up, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn. -Harriet Beecher Stowe
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flowerbeauty21
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flowerbeauty21 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
NO, don't do such a thing, bad idea! Yes you have to wait and you have to be patient. Everyones time comes in a while. So will yours, I'm waiting for the right guy too, be he doesn't seem to want to be here! But that's life, you gotta wait and go out there and meet new people. So do it, you should never give up, love exists in many kinds of ways you don't expect.

I don't know why people say " I wanna know what its like to be kissed for the first time" I found nothing great in it. But you gotta give it a little bit more time. Expect the unexpected! Happens when you least expect it.!
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kimberlyinspired (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
Go for it! You don't want to be 40 years old and never fell in love, or had someone special to you. You might have to much regrets. Play the field and try to find someone who is compatible with you. You deserve that someone to give you flowers on Valentines Day, or take care of you when you are sick. You don't need someone now, but just don't wait too long. Everyone finds someone.
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N0talwaysPerfect (Age:Under 18)      When: 10 months ago
First off you need to find your sexuality if you like girls you like girls if you like guys and girls that's on you your parents have to except you the way you are because you still part of there family and no matter how much they hate you for being that way they need to except the fact that you're still there daughter no matter what happens. Don't give up just go out and meet new peoples and try to get to know them better.
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