Guys who are your friends

Maybe he likes you because you 2 have an emotional connection.

Guys like a lot of different girls from a physical viewpoint. Some of these girls will not be pursued because they are not attractive personality wise. So the odds are that any guy you meet who spends time with you finds you attractive (to a greater or lesser extent). Once the friendship forms and he sees that y'all have a lot in common and that you have fun together, wanting a relationship is a natural progression. I'm not sure that I see the problem here - you've got a friend whom you get along with, who likes you, and who wants a relationship. To me that seems like a foundation for a good relationship.

Hey one of my best friends is a close buddy's girlfriend. Yeah, I've fallen for her because I love talking to her and we have a lot in common. I have to check myself though because our relationship is based on helping each other do what's best for each other and making each other happy. She's happy with her boyfriend, so I let her have him. but I'd like to have her when/if they're done! haha

Because they're your best friend, any guy who is a best friend likes you hands down.

Just be careful not to give him any mix signals if he realy wants to be friends which I doubt. He will understand if you tell him that you just want to be friends and that's it.

When I was just a little kid, my best friend used to be a girl and I liked her but nothing happened and she's still one of my closest friends

I think it is because you are closer to them than any other girl and you tell them stuff about you that you couldn't tell you boyfriend you tell them as a friend and that makes them love you even more when they know everything about you your every thought.

Yeah, that happens to me all the time.

The things that make guys want to be friends with you are the same things that will make them like you. What can I say? If you knew a guy as funny, smart, and nice as your best girlfriend, wouldn't you fall head over heels?

Is it a bad thing. Me and the guys hang out every night. I have NO friends who are girls. When you trust a guy enough to tell him the guy you're falling hard for then he's your friend, but if you don't feel right telling him who you like you like him. The guys I hang out with don't care about clothes or hair and neither do I. We just get along.

Not all guys who you are best friends with are looking for sex, that twit up there heard something from a guy and believed it. I am friends with plenty of guys and most of them really do want to be just friends. There are some who are just hanging out with you for sex. I think the reason that they seem to like you is because they see you with your guard down, you don't dress up for your friends, as you would for someone you like. They can see the real you.

Call it the "Chasing Amy" syndrome. ;-)

Cause you click together.

By you being best friends and all you share so much between each other and be around each other so much you start falling for each other.

I would say it's because they really get to know you, and that's what's most important, the person within.

Sorry, but all I can tell you is get used to it! You're starting to see already that men will pretend to be your best friend in order to hook up with you. I hate to sound harsh, but ask any older man honestly, and he'll admit that guys don't want to be friends with a girl - hardly ever. If you're an attractive girl, that makes it even more likely that I'm right. Sex is first and foremost on guys' minds, like it or not. While you might value that special bond of friendship with him, he's secretly waiting for you to be single or show interest in him. It's not that guys like you because you've become such great friends. It's that guys only pretend (90% of the time) to be your friend to get you into bed. If you don't believe me, just give it a few years, and you'll see!