I go to school with this. I guess you could say "lady. ' She's 35 years old and always sits next to me and has a conversation. Of course I'm nice to her so I talk back. She likes that I'm a student majoring in psychology so she likes talking to me about her feelings. I don't mind this, actually I enjoy listening and I'm happy she can trust me on a friend type of level. The other day she had asked to use my cell phone. I was confused because I knew she had one but I let her use it anyways. Ever since, I've noticed this weird number calling my phone and after 5 times, I decided to answer. It was her. I checked my call log and it turns out she called her cell to get my cell number. She could have asked for it and I would have given it to her. She calls me non-stop. Today, 45 times. I refuse to answer my phone. Although I feel bad not answering and calling her creepy, but I'm starting to get uncomfortable. Right now is spring break, and I'm stressing going back to school and seeing this lady. Like I said before, I enjoy her talking to me and telling me how she feels but it's gone overboard. Recently she started telling me how she uses heroin and smokes crack and everything else. There's only so much I can help her with and that's not something I can guide her with. I'm just curious to know what some of you think and how I should approach this situation. Thanks!
45 calls in one day? She is stalking you. I would tell her to knock it off right now, tell her it's creeping you out and that it needs to end. If she continues harassing you this way, it's time to take it up with the school. Find a teacher or counselor you are comfortable discussing the matter with and they will be able to direct you as to what you can do through the school. Her behavior is really strange. A 35 year old does not need to be calling a college student 45 times a day under any circumstances. In short, be direct with her and tell her to stop, try to sit apart from her and demonstrate that you do not want to be close to her anymore. If she continues to persue you, take it up with a higher power.
Cut out all communication with this lady immediately. She sounds unstable, and maybe dangerous. She shouldn't be calling you like this. 45 times? Ands she's an admitted drug user. That makes her a criminal. You don't need to involve yourself in this kind of trouble. If she continues to call you, contact your phone company about blocking her. Talk to your teacher, and get moved away from her in the classroom. You don't owe this lady anything.
She sounds like she is bi-polar. Maybe you need to politely ask if she has health insurance and recommend that she needs to talk to an experienced professional. I hope this helps. Good luck!
Ok she obviously have a problem. She could be dangerous since she do drugs. Just keep a distant with her. Try not to lead her on. If she talk to you just reply with something short.
She's sick! Stop answering her calls or might as well answer it for the last time and tell her she needs professional help and that the advice you are giving her may not be right anymore. If you see her in school try to avoid her and if you have no choice but to face her tell your busy, make her feel you are avoiding her. Don't worry about her feelings anymore, she's psychotic.
Well tell how she feels were she can get help and talk to her like patient and let her know that how you will react her and tell her when you can talk to her. Explain to her that you have a life and that she needs to start building her on. I want to be a psychologist to and I get things like this all the time guys think they like me because I help them and stuff its tough but the truth hurts.
This is a tough one . . . It's for sure gotten to a point of being too close. Even if you were a liscensed psychologist you wouldn't be this close with your patients unless they were family. You're right, you can't guide everybody through all of their problems and it sounds like she might need some help that is practiced in the area of drug abuse. It also sounds like she really needs someone she can trust. I would talk to a staff member of your school and find out where lines have been crossed according to the school. You can do this without giving any names until you know exactly what can and should be done. Perhaps you can help get her pointed in the right direction. It's good that you can recognize when close is too close!
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