I've never been in a relationship, and I'm going to be twenty. Will I ever meet anyone? Because I feel that I won't ever and I'll just be alone for the rest of my life. I honestly don't think I'll ever click with anyone, cause I've just never felt that and it seems that everyone else has. Or maybe there is just something wrong with me? Because I guess I'm just really tired of waiting and I just want to experience something.
You will meet someone I wasn't in a real relationship until I was 20. I was with the girl for 6. 5 years then I had to start all over again. Just stay interested in your own life and you will find someone. If you're shy you need to start talking to anyone and everyone. Once you start learning how to talk to people you will find it much easier to strike up a conversation with a guy. Next thing you know he'll be asking for your number.
Don't be too anxious. Relax and have fun with friends. Go out and be involved with groups that interest you. Don't go to bars.
One word of advice: it's better to be single than to be in a bad marriage. I'm a married type personality and I'm telling you that from all that I've seen.
At 20, you've PLENTY of time. Trust me, I am 35. I didn't meet my true love until I was almost 26. And we married in 6 months, because I loved her (still love her) so passionately.
Here's the cold truth: There are only a few people in the whole weird who will ever really love you. Your family, Your lifelong friends, maybe a girl friend or two.
But the love's you make along the way, YOU will have to choose, and it's not easy. It's why it's called dating. Because you have to try to find a true love. I was lucky. I found mine.
There is allot of wisdom in the saying "Never rush love", let everything come in it's dew time. Have faith that you will find someone, and I promise you there are allot of guys who you would have no problem "clicking" with, if not that special someone. And having someone just for "experience" is the same as literally sucking out all their blood and becoming insane. Only when you are happy with yourself and fully be yourself will you have clear eyes and be able to find your match and "click" for real. To rush love is like setting fire to yourself and everyone and everything around you.
This isn't the 1950's, 20 isn't too late at all. My first serious girlfriend wasn't until I was 21 and before that my relationships all lasted less than a month, not even going into "girlfriend/boyfriend" territory. My peers are all single nerds who I'm sure will be great boyfriends but they're in the same situation as you, seemingly unable to get out there and click with anyone. So don't fear, put yourself out there and you'll find the right guy, we're out there, we just aren't the type who hang around areas that people meet.
During the long dry spells between relationships I feel the same way as you, and I think it has to do with the type of people we're exposed to and in what context. Girls at the club and parties don't do it for me at all, whereas the cute girl in the cubicle next to me or in class will drive me wild even though they're not trying to be sexy at all. Unfortunately, it seems the more socially acceptable a situation is for people to meet, the more I feel disconnected from the type of people who are in the situation, so it begins to feel hopeless.
Whatever you do, don't settle for someone you're not happy with just because they're with you. Maybe try to get your friends to set you up on a date?
So you've never been in a relationship and you'll be twenty soon, which means you will meet someone! It's kinda hard to find Mr. Right, or even a good guy for that matter, depending on where you live. Approach a guy you like in a setting where you think he's your type! I don't think there's something wrong with you just becoz you're a bit different. Cheers :)
Sometimes I think the same thing you are thinking now. I am 24 by the way. Pretty soon into my 25th. I have never been into a relationship but I think is just because of me. I have my own standards and I think sometimes they are way too hight because I just don;t seem to click with that person close to my std. Anyways, I get guys coming to me but I just don't seem to click and sometimes it goes in my mind that why everyone seems to be clicking with other people but me. But I don't think there is something wrong with you. Just get out there and try to meet people and maybe you will find that someone you long for.
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