Are you a fit girl that dated a really fit guy and then eventually fell in love with your average joe?

I prefer my guys to have some muscle and be healthy. There's just something about that commanding form that makes me gooey inside. Girls love guys with nice abs, and I know for me that if they have good arms then they're a keeper. We aren't just into there bodies though. The guys girls fall in love with are sweet, charming, and charismatic. The body is just a plus!

I wouldn't say I fell in love with my average joe. But I definitely used to think I had a certain guy type, like really tall and muscular. Turns out, for me anyway, those were the guys who were jerks. I mean my fiance is not an average joe in my eyes, he's perfect to me and he happens to be fit. But he is definitely not the same type of guy I used to date.

IF I was really fit I would fall for someone who wasn't. I might sometimes would want him to Exercise with me.

If I were fit I'd want him to at least excercise with me or try. I wouldn't be with a guy if he couldn't enjoy doing activities with me. He doesn't have to be muscles, just as long as he's somewhat tone. If I went through all the trouble to be in really good shape I'd want my partner to at least be average body.

Dunno, I guess I'm pickier than I thought, I just intend to become fit in the future.
The most important factor is personality and this average joe has to be up to working out with me. I like teaching, he just has to have dedication :)

I think that in the end it's a personal choice. Fit doesn't necessarily mean that he has to have muscles. For me anyway. I have to love his personality first. Girls want their guy to make their world go around. We look for that chemistry. But in no way does he have to keep his body in "peak condition". There has been a recent question on this website addressed to girls which read somewhat "which body parts you find attractive in your guy". And the answers were diverse. We look at eyes, arms, hair, etc.