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Avril-Lavigne (Age:Under 18)     When: More than a year ago
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What would you do if you had a best friend who had a boyfriend that slapped her in the mouth before and always says mean stuff to her like shut up bitch and your a hoe? She's my best friend and she won't break up with him. I only want what's best for her. He also sleeps with her then ditches her for his friends and drugs. What should I do to help her and get her out of this situation?

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Lesae (Age:36 to 45)      When: 11 months ago
He's a winner. She needs to boost her self esteem. If she is under 18, tell her Parents. Guy's who hit girls need to be beat up by someone really big. She needs help. You might think you will lose her friendship but you won't. It's worth it if you get her out of the situation.
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teraluna
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teraluna (Age:36 to 45)      When: More than a year ago
You can't get her out. She has to get herself out. You are there for support. Tell her she can talk to you or give her a "help" line as many women are ashamed to discuss with people they know.

For some reason women still stay in abusive relationships because down deep they think they deserve some sort of pain and cruelty. It's insane, I know but a lot of women have issues that are not resolved and this is thing they have to do; resolve their issues.
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devilish96
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devilish96 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Oohh man have I dealt with this one for the last 6 years. Same thing with my friend. Liked a guy who ignored her then f***ed her then ignored her again. Now she has a boyfriend who has cheated on her, is selling dope, and even f***ed our other ex "best friend". She is still with him no matter how many times I've told her to ditch him or whatever. Like everyone says, she has to do it herself. Even if you sound like a bitch, when she fianlly realizes it, she'll realize how much you meant to help her.
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ladythugnasty
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ladythugnasty (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Tell her that he ain't worth the pain he is giving her and that she needs to end it with him or you will.
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Schwildcat
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Schwildcat (Age:30 to 35)      When: More than a year ago
There is nothing you can do. She has to do it for herself. I had a friend a few years ago that was the same way - he beat her up regularly - hit her with his truck and she married him.
It is very sad but nobody can help these girls if they will not help themselvs.
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