Can cheaters ever change?

Mostly, yes! It becomes a habit with these guys. They keep wanting to do it!

Yes I believe it... if he/she has the guts to do it, he/she will always have those guts to do it.

I have been labeled that and it's been true in my case for years but if he finds the one he's truly meant to be with and loves 100% he'll try to change. He might try to get away with a cheat like I did but I was given another chance and I won't mess this up again and hopefully you're the right one for him.

I think it often depends on the circumstance in which the person cheated. Some people might believe that monogamy is impossible, but I know through experience that it's not. That being said, if my wife ever cheated on me, I'm not sure that I would definitely want to divorce her. I would have sufficient reason and cause to, but because I love her as much as I do, I'm not sure that I would really want to shun her from the rest of my life due to an indiscretion.

Again, it would depend on the circumstances. If it was a one time thing, or she was completely drunk and couldn't control herself (which hardly ever happens), or especially if she told me about right away and she was repentant over what she did, then I wouldn't have a problem forgiving her. Of course, if it was a full-blown affair that had been going on for several months, that would do it for me.

People can change. I've known people that had cheated in past relationships become completely committed and monogamous once they found who they knew they were going to be with for the rest of their lives. It's just that when they were with someone, they didn't want to be alone (which is the wrong reason to be in a relationship in the first place), but they were settling for someone in the here and now. In this guy's case, the woman he cheated with ended up being the love of his life.

I believe "once a cheater always a cheater"

Believe that after a while someone could change

Yes I believe it. if someone has the audacity to try and pull something over your head, and is forgiven, chances are they will do it again. the cheater doesn't deserve anyone who will be honest with them.

People can change, as long as you trust them everything should be fine. Though there are those people that don't. It's a give or take scenario. You got to trust before you date this person or else you'll find yourself assuming he/she is cheating every time they not around.

ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER in my book!!!

Generally, once a cheater, always a cheater. And they get better and better about covering it up, too!!

I don't believe that once a cheater always a cheater. I think the circumstances need to be considered.

I believe in that phrase 100%. I've never known anyone who has cheated in the past and then stopped, both girls and guys.

People can change if they want to.

Well no much how you want them to change they will always be the same. Cause if they cheated once then they will always be a cheater but they may not cheat again but it won't change what they've done.

Yeah sometimes a cheater can change but 9 times out of 10 they are probably gonna do it again I guess it really depends on hom much they really do love you.