What do you say?

Society has drastically changed in the last 50 years, and so have the habits, the standards, the perceptions, the morality.

I recently saw an article in which a psychologist was saying that movies tend to set a far from reality love relationship standard/model. I personally believe that it can happen. Probably not to everybody, but for sure, eventually, to those who look for it.

What I feel is that people like us or you an me we sometimes get caught up in movies of people who fall in love. But then we don't realize it's just a movie. > Okay I'll be open with you I am day dreamer to sometimes I may feel like that after I see a movie. So I have to realize in reality that it is not so easy but don't get your hopes up you can find your true love it may just take sometime so I think you will be alright.

Love exists - we people are just so impatient that we don't realize that love comes to us when we are ready! Maybe your not ready to be in love yet, maybe god thinks you need to find yourself first in order to find love! Patience is a virtue - stick to this saying in love and in life! And just so you know love doesn't happen just like that - it doesn't happen overnight and it definitely doesn't happen in 2 weeks and even in 2 months - it happens with each day, week, month and many years to come - it grows and then blooms and grows even more after it has bloomed because you finally realize that you may have found the one person who makes your heart soar and believe anything is possible within your reach! To be a dreamer may be the greatest thing of all but to live in reality is even greater!

Love is nothing like the movies. Trust me. In the movies, people meet each other in a perfect setting, fall in love instantly, have some tragic thing happen and then find each other again later in life and live happily ever after. That happens to maybe 5% of the population. For all of us other guinea pigs we have to pretty much go into love with blind eyes. REAL love usually happens with awkward exchanges, crazy fights, crying, laughing, breakups, makeups, breakups (makeups again) and then moving on and realizing that the person you thought that you couldn't live without you don't even think about anymore. Don't look for the movie type of love life. Look for YOUR love life. :)

I honestly don't think love is like it is in the movies. Even the best relationships have some really messed up beginnings. I had the same problem. I wanted a romeo and juliet, die for each other kind of love, but not everyone has that expectation. Two reasons for that. The way they grew up and the point that they are at in their lives. If they have had their heart broken they will not show you want you wish they would.

Love is kind of f***ed up. The best you can do is try to make it like a movie when you have the chance. Other than that. You love who you love no matter how messed up it gets.