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Can I ask everybody a huge favor?

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timberlake (Age:18 to 24)     When: A month ago
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My mother is going to be having another heart surgery soon and I'm scared and she's scared and we're all scared together. She's the only parent I have, the backbone to this life of mine, and I love her dearly. She's older (63) and I just don't want anything to happen to her. Chances of survival are pretty 50/50 and I don't know what I would do if I lost my mother.

So could you guys send a prayer out for her? I don't know all the religions, but whatever you believe in, could you just send up a warm thought? One of hope and peace for a healthier life? I just want as much help and strength as we can get through this and the positive voices will help us through this. You don't have to literally write down your prayer, but if you could just take a moment to offer one up, I'd appreciate it. Thank you in advance.


Update: wow, I wasn't expecting such wonderful responses. you guys are all wonderful. those of you who aren't religious, thank you for being so respectful about it. I'll take your luck and good wishes. I'm seriously about to cry :( haha thank you so much.    A month ago

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DoggyDude
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DoggyDude      When: 29 days ago
As someone whos had open heart surgery and is now fine I wish you both the best and know it will work.

Since I had mine, the techology has improved so much, and success statistics are much higher.

Just remember though, whatever the outcome, it will be the right one for you Mum (and hopefully will mean she's with you longer in body as well as inspirit).
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Prometheus
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Prometheus      When: A month ago
I'll be praying for you and your mother. I'm sure she will be fine, I'll be thinking of both of you :)
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: A month ago
I wish your mom the best of luck and ill pray for her and your family's happiness.. may peace be with you.
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JakeJake09
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JakeJake09      When: A month ago
sure no problem, anything for someone in need.
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abzence
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abzence      When: A month ago
I'm sending you and your mother my warmest feelings and energy that I posess.
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palek
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palek      When: A month ago
From my mouth, to God's ear, for you and your mom. (If you haven't already done so, ask Jesus to give you both peace in all of this. He's seen me though many hard things)
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alaric
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alaric      When: A month ago
whats your moms name?
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joecollege
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joecollege      When: A month ago
You've got my prayers for your mom, yourself and your family. Great idea bro, and your responses and support have been wonderful. I have been here a while, and It's a beautiful thing to see a community develop and come together like this on this website.
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Answerer And for some reason after reading the guy responses last I had "bro" stuck in my head. I understand you're a girl :) Anyway, I hope God is with your mom, yourself and your family. - A month ago

tyrantfuryre
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tyrantfuryre      When: A month ago
I'm agnostic as well, but I will most certainly think positively and hope for the best. She'll pull through babe. Head up high. :)
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nymphoman
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nymphoman      When: A month ago
I'm an agnostic so instead of a prayer I will send my best wishes and hopes to your mother with love to you and your family at this time of uncertainty.
Stay strong, help each other out and be there for each other no matter what the outcome.
Good luck to you all.
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matt_knight
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matt_knight      When: A month ago
NO PROBLEM! I hope your mom is ok...the same thing happened with my aunt, I know how you feel. Best wishes
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Nashton
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Nashton      When: A month ago
yeah no problem! =D
i hope she will be fine.
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here4you
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here4you      When: A month ago
you got mine!
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Rob_Tay
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Rob_Tay      When: A month ago
Prayer goes out to you and you mother. I hope it all goes well and she has a good recovery. God bless
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vetmedhead
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vetmedhead      When: A month ago
Best wishes.
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dan_i_am
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dan_i_am      When: A month ago
My mom had heart surgery too, so I know how scary it is for all involved.

I am here to tell you that prayers do work and you can count on me to include you, your mom and all involved.

All my best wishes, thoughts and prayers go out to you in this difficult time.

D.
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VampSoldier
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VampSoldier      When: A month ago
I'll be praying for both your mother's surgery and for you through the coming week.

May God be with you both in this time to come and I really hope that you remain strong and faithful, no matter what the outcome.

God bless and best wishes. Hope all goes well...
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SetsunaYuy4
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SetsunaYuy4      When: A month ago
I'll pray for your mother and the surgery. I know God will be watching over her and guiding her through it. So I will pray for the best of both of you.

Take care and hug your mom for everyone of us who is praying for her.
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whitechoco
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whitechoco      When: A month ago
i'll be praying for you and ur mother that the surgery will go well and everything will be alright.
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Amrit
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Amrit      When: A month ago
I prayed to God for her(your mother's) successful operation and that she becomes healthy again.

Faith is everything. Faith can move mountains. Trust the Almighty.

God Bless.
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Answerer Why on earth many people disagree with me ? (This is not the only answer) Is it that such people dislike me or something ? - A month ago
Question Asker Idk why, but thank you for the kind words :) - A month ago
Answerer I mean, I really did pray for your mother for about a minute ! I never write false sentences. And then there are these people who disagree with that !!! This is just so defeating !! - A month ago

stevo
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stevo      When: A month ago
Sure :D I hope that she survives, and beats the odds. And I hope you're doing well, and be optimistic about it all!
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sonic241928
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sonic241928      When: A month ago
Absolutely, I will pray. I can only imagine what this time must be like for you. I am a Christian, and I believe that God has only the best will towards every human being on the planet.

As an encouragement, if I may, I'll direct you to just two passages from the Holy Bible:

link

link

I wish your mother a speedy recovery, and you and your family all the best.
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Question Asker Thank you for the passages and prayer. I'm putting all my faith in God and so is she. - A month ago
 

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snowangel88
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snowangel88      When: A month ago
You are both in my prayers. Please, let us know how she does. Hang in there!
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: A month ago
sure ill say a little prayer to st jude for you. my mum always prays to him for a certain request and it always works for her =)

i know this is a stupid example but I got off a train a stop later (and about an hr away from where I was meant to be) and had no clue how to get back. I was freaking out but I handed the whole situation over to my higher power. then sure enough there was a free shuttle bus to the bus station where I got a bus ok (there weren't any trains for another hour whereas there was a bus in 30mins) and got talking to bus driver and he dropped me off almost at my doorstep. There were way too many coincidences in the whole scenario to simply be "luck" so there's definitely some higher power/god out there who can help us if we seek it. hope this is of some comfort to you =)

good luck! I'm sure one extra prayer won't do any harm lol!
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Question Asker I totally get what your saying. God is in all the little things as well as the big things. thanks for sharing that with me :) - A month ago

 
Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: A month ago
You and your mom are in my prayers too. I also pray for the doctors and surgeons - that they do the best job they've ever done. Best wishes, our hearts are with you!
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: A month ago
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your mother. I hope everything goes well for you! Stay strong and God Bless!
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lalalady1991
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lalalady1991      When: A month ago
I'll be praying for you and your mom, I hope the surgery is a success. God Bless.
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RyeLee
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RyeLee      When: A month ago
I don't know what religion you are either, but either way, you sound pretty religious. I just wanted to let you know that God knows what you are going through, and He has your best interest in mind. He will always do what is best. My prayers are with you! God bless!
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rainboots05
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rainboots05      When: A month ago
Hold on tight and you will get through it! I'll pray for you and your mother :)
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ArabSweetie
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ArabSweetie      When: A month ago
you got mine =)
dont be scared honey,everybody is with you and your mom. Its gonna be alright. Take care of your mom
-xxxx- best wishes
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the-love-guru
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the-love-guru      When: A month ago
It warms my heart to see people lending a helping hand. I'll be more than happy to pray for you and your mother. Keep thinking positive. Your mom is going to look to you for strength. You can do it! :)

My all time favorite passage is Psalm 121. It talks about God watching over you day in and day out, taking care of your needs. Have faith, even in the troubling times. This is what makes us stronger. We're here for you...
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19love
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19love      When: A month ago
im here for u. ill pray for her
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twilightfan123
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twilightfan123      When: A month ago
Wow, your family must be going through a lot, and I can't imagine how you feel right now hoping she can make it. Good luck.
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Belleza
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Belleza      When: A month ago
Sure!
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niquerdoodle
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niquerdoodle      When: A month ago
I hope and pray everything goes well for your Mom. You and your Mom are in my prayers, God Bless.
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rdabby
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rdabby      When: A month ago
I hope everything will be just okay and everythingf will be fine.

Am praying for you and your mother to go through this and to have strength and health..

Good Luck and we re all here for you

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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: A month ago
okay I am. I know how scared you are and I want you to know I sent a prayer. God is real and He will bring you guys through this
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xxLadyDamselxx
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xxLadyDamselxx      When: A month ago
That's so scary... you can ensure that I'm going to include you in my prayers. God hears them all, and answers them in one way or another. Best of luck to you and your mother. tell her that Jess is praying for her ;)
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may28_ritu
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may28_ritu      When: A month ago
be strong. we are all with you.. :)
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Amrit Good Answer ! +1 - A month ago

Nekuya
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Nekuya      When: A month ago
I really hope you can cope through this. Even if she passes on, take comfort in knowing she loved and is proud of you. :)
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pastelcolors
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pastelcolors      When: A month ago
you and your mother will be in my prayers. (((hugs)))
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Question Asker Thank you :) (((hugs back))) lol - A month ago
 
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