I'm just curious. But if a guy who doesn't have much friends and does not want to continue with higher education after he is done with four years of college, would these two things be something really bad? Would these two things be something big to consider when having has a date, a boyfriend, and maybe a husband? if these things aren't so bad, girls please name something that is so bad that if a guy has it, you would never ever date or even get close to him.
If a guy doesn't have very many friends, it doesn't matter to me, but I would wonder why he doesn't. 4 years of college is great, that would only impress me, I would admire that he chose to continue his education after high school, as a lot of people do not. Even if he did not go to college at all and had no friends, it wouldn't bother me if he had qualities that made him a good person.
Things I can't stand in a guy, if he's very judgmental and closed minded. As well as too protective. Protective is nice, to a limit, but when it gets to where I can't hang out with guy friends without him being angry? Too much for me.
You sound like a very nice girl. I also have the same outlook when I'm looking for a girlfriend. As long as the girl has good qualities, I can pretty ignore the rest. It's just that my parents were getting on me about not being outgoing and continuing school after my bachelor...but at some point, I can't help but to think they may be right or at least partially. So that's why I'm asking you girls - 9 months ago
Most people actually don't get an education beyond the bachelor's degree, so that wouldn't bother me in the slightest. As far as not having many friends, well, my dad didn't have many friends at all, but my mom still dated and eventually married him. I wouldn't think those things were a big deal.
Things that would be a complete deal-breaker for me are smoking, being a jerk to people (even if he's nice to me), or bad hygiene. A guy doesn't have to be immaculate, but he's gotta take care of his body, you know? Also, I'd have issues with a guy who didn't value education at all. If a guy didn't go to college because he wanted to be a fireman or go into the military or something, that's one thing, but if he just didn't want to bother with getting an education? That would be a huge turnoff to me. I'm too much of an intellectual, and it would never work out between us if that were the case.
My education is important to me. I do think I am more of an intellectual than not. But to me, continuing after 4 years is just more drudge work. I want to start working already and start my life as soon as I can. - 9 months ago
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Yeah, definitely. Heck, I'm getting tired of school after 2 years of university, but if I want a job in my field, an advanced degree is necessary. ;) If a guy doesn't need an advanced degree for what he wants to do, there's no reason I'd expect him to get one. - 9 months ago
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No I don't think that's such a bad thing. If you had poor hygiene, or if you cheated I wouldn't date ya but you don't sound like a bad guy at all. :)
Thanks ^_^ I don't have much friends because I'm kinda shy and not outgoing. I don't cheat and will never. As for my hygiene, I think it's better than even a girl lol - 9 months ago
Well ok if we think - actually if I think that he has all the qualities of a husband - friends is something I wouldn't mind - however not continuing in higher education I mind unless you want to become a fireman or a cop or deal with human services yea ok I'll except it cause I know those careers at some point may last! The thing is if I want a guy for a long term committed relationship - I need to know that he'll be financially stable and that he'll be fulfilled for life with his career - if I ever meet a guy like that I wouldn't mind him being a fireman I love firemen and I wouldn't mind him being a cop or deal with human services! I wouldn't care! As long as he knows how to treat me right - that's all that matters! And also I don't think there is anything bad but just as long as he's financially stable!
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