Ok. So my man plays football, basketball and track. I do dance and volleyball. We already found out that physically, I am stronger. Although he has about 8 on me (height wise) I still weigh more, and have a greater muscle mass. I always feel bad that he is weaker than me. Is that a turn off to some guys? Is it plain weird?
I think that if he can get over it, it would be pretty cool. It's a big middle finger to society's views on things, and plus the possibilities it opens up in bed are VERY interesting
Well he should be ok, but if he were to get into an argument and you stepped up to fight the dude that was pissing him off then it would definitely shatter his self-esteem. He is a man and he wants to feel as though he can protect you. If I were you I would compliment him on his grip. Let him know that you like it when he holds you firmly. (don't over do it)
Never say "I wish you had bigger muscles" That might just piss him off completely. My ex said that and I SHOULD have kicked her ass out the door while driving down the interstate. Lol
He is still young and has plenty of time to out grow you.
If I had a girl and she was stronger than me. No scratch that, she wouldn't be stronger than me unless she lifts heavy weights in the gym. That would just be motivation for me to get stronger, but I'd feel bad and really weak, and just plain pathetic!
His pride will probably get hurt easily. It isn't necessarily a turn off just a little bit depressing thanks to our society. Just be careful to not tease him about it or it will only make him feel worse.
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