Does the person you once thought you loved or did love at one point ever become just a distant memory, something that you enjoyed but don't miss anymore? or do you have to replace that person have to be replaced with someone else. Even though, you say you don't like them... are you just telling yourself that ... will feelings for them linger in your heart and mind?
I don't think that you could ever replace the person you loved with someone else. To me, it's just not possible. Sure, that person may be great, but, they may not be anything like the guy/girl you loved before. After seven and a half long years, I haven't EVER stopped loving the girl that I did back then. I still love her with each passing day. She could never become a distant memory. People that you love hold a special place in your heart-
I'm not quite sure. The person I had believed I loved I still slightly think about, but then again she is also a good friend of mine, so that could be that cause.
In my case some feelings linger on for her. I fell in love when we were 14, she didn't respond, always staying kind towards me. I got out of that story at 18 when we went to different universities. I had a few 'stories' then met my wife.
Some 6 or 8 years ago I met my first love again, we're both married to another one and she seems happy too. Her daughters about the same age as my son. We exchanged addresses and phone numbers, but rarely used them (never the phone, just a few mails when her sister and her father died etc) When I met her again last year I said 'you know, the love is gone, but I still feel great tenderness.' And we both smiled.
But she wouldn't have been the right one for me. My wife is the right one.
I'd give anything to have my ex back. She is just immature and feels that partying and seeing if there's anything better out there than me is relevant right now. I think about her all the time, I see things that remind me of her, and I miss her so much. She was the love of my life.
That's not how it worked for me. When he left for college I continued to feel that way for a long time, but I've found someone else who I care about much much more and my feelings for the first guy are truly gone. I think if I saw him today I wouldn't feel the slightest thing.
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