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Would you have intervened?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 22 days ago
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I was watching the news and saw that a 15 year old girl in California got raped on school property during the homecoming dance last weekend.

Supposedly, there were people leaving the dance just to watch the rape...which lasted 2 and a half hours...and some even participated. As many as 6 guys raped and beat this 15 year old while a large group of people took pictures with their cell phones...But nobody called 911 to report it.

She was found unconscious and naked from the waist down under a bench after someone who overheard students "reminiscing" about the incident tipped off the police.

My question is...what would you have done if you were there and saw everything? What do you think? Should the bystanders have done something...would YOU have?


Update: Also, Why do you think nobody helped?    22 days ago

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I would have intervened in some way-or called 911

I would not have intervened

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Dela1111
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Dela1111      When: 20 days ago
So many people say they would have done something but I think few actually would. I can honestly say that I stay out of people I don't knows business until it crosses the line to where their is a physical confrontation. Girls are supposed to be protected by guys, if you aren't willing to take that responsibility then you can't call yourself a man.
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dreamer010999
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dreamer010999      When: 21 days ago
Holy s*** -- what is the world coming to? Well at least this poll result encourages my view of humanity.
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stevo
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stevo      When: 21 days ago
I think it's sadly inexcusable that people did what they did by laughing, taking pictures, and participating like they did. Even more disgusting that a group of people could HAVE done something. You know, as a male, I hope these six 'men' who did this get what's coming to them. Cowards. But I think that so many people were shocked as to what was happening before their very eyes, that they were consumed by fear and possible retribution.
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martyfellow
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martyfellow      When: 21 days ago
Take into account that you ran a real risk of being knifed if you tried to inetervene with THIS crowd! I't's easy to say you'd do it in the absract, but the reality is you would be risking your life!.

I would have called the cops , but not tried to physically intervene myself. Sorry, but I'm not going to risk my life for a girl I don't know...

Most honest guys would say the same, I think.
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Question Asker So you didn't vote in the poll? - 21 days ago
Answerer The question included calling the cops as 'intervention', so I'm one of the eight - 20 days ago

shyperson2009
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shyperson2009      When: 21 days ago
I would have confronted them immediately. I hope that they are all tried as adults and get locked up for a while. That includes everyone who watched, because they are just as guilty as the ones doing the raping.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 22 days ago
I would have beaten the crap out of every kid that participated. And I'm not kidding around either.
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Anonymous User      When: 22 days ago
I don't drink nor am I aggressive, but whenever I go out to a bar, I always bring a knife because I've had some bad experiences in those places. In this case, I would intervene and I wouldn't doubt to use the knife if necessary.
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Question Asker So you would have stabbed the rapists? Wouldn't that be scary if there were so many? Do you think it would be worth going to jail to help a stranger and possibly getting hurt yourself? You would take the chance? Honestly? - 22 days ago
Answerer Rapists are the worst kind of scum next to pedophiles. Willing to hurt people mentally and physically to accomplish thier own sick sexual needs. But its not like I would stab them out of the blue:

1. call the police and tell them to get out
2. if they don't leave, take out the knife
3. if they become violent, I'd use it and it would go under selfdefense or something

1 step on - 21 days ago
Answerer I was at a party once where drunk guy got a bit too friendly with a girl and she told him to stop several times. After observing for a while I stepped in and calmly told him to go away. After a few heated words, he smiled and backed off. Looked at the girl, she thanked me and told her it was no problem. - 21 days ago

armyant
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armyant      When: 22 days ago
Where I live, not reporting a rape you're witness to is in itself a crime, so there'd be a lot of people facing charges in this case.
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Question Asker Yes that's what I thought too. But on the news they said there would only be charges if they were contributing to the rape (ie holding her down or covering her mouth) or egging on the rapists. I hope that's not the case though-if it is...our society is really going downhill. - 22 days ago
Answerer No, I mean, I don't live in the US, I live in Europe. It's not against the law there, but not reporting certain crimes (including rape) is a crime here. - 22 days ago
Question Asker Well I just hope justice gets served - 22 days ago
Answerer Indeed.

I have no way to follow this story so please keep us posted on new developments! - 22 days ago
Question Asker Really? Can't you just type in Richmond High School rape and the story will pop up? - 22 days ago
Answerer But you'll probably get updates on TV, so just update the question when there's something new so we'll know to check out what's new with the story. It's more convenient than googling it all the time. - 21 days ago
 

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kailar
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kailar      When: 20 days ago
This is messed up. I would have called the police right away!
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ALWAYSclassy
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ALWAYSclassy      When: 21 days ago
I would have intervened. As a woman, there is no way I could witness another female get raped and do nothing. The bystanders are just as guilty because they basically sat there and watched it like a spectator sport and did nothing to help the poor girl. If it were me I would have started yelling and making a commotion to draw attention to what's going on. Physically intervening into a group of 6 men assaulting 1 woman and the rest standing around doing nothing wouldn't be too smart, we'd likely just both get attacked. If it started looking unsafe for me or the guys did not stop I'd leave the area but call the police. In the age of cell phones and instant technology it's a damn shame no one called 911. I hope they all burn in hell. I don't even know if I want to bring children into this world sometimes. People call me crazy but I carry a knife with me when I go out at night for reasons like this and I'm gonna get a gun permit and get some mace too. It's scary out here.

I think no one helped because they are sick bastards. You cannot tell me that you would pull out a cell phone and videotape it because you were "scared" or in "shock". These are not people, they are savage animalistic sociopaths.
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Cool-Relax
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Cool-Relax      When: 22 days ago
I don't see how people can stand there and watch something so brutal. I would've been so disgusted that I couldn't stay and watch, and I don't think I could've just walked away without a second thought. What happened to that poor girl is going to be with her for life--I would feel partially responsible if I didn't make any attempt to stop it.

I think it has to do with diffusion of responsibility (it's a psychology/sociology theory). Ever hear of Kitty Genovese? She was stabbed to death outside of her apartment building with neighbors watching/listening. The man actually stabbed her, left, came back 10 minutes later, raped her, stole money, stabbed her again and left before anything was done. When a lot of people see something happen, they assume that someone else will do something about it. When everyone makes that assumption, no one does anything.

It might have something to do with the whole mob mentality too; people act differently when they're in groups. And depending on what kind of people were there to see the attack, they might've been afraid to tell someone.
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stevo Please tell me they got that slime that did that to Genovese- - 21 days ago
Answerer Yeah, they caught him. - 21 days ago

Miss_Desirae
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Miss_Desirae      When: 22 days ago
That's just so wrong! I would have at the very least called the police to report it if I had come across what was going on, and try to get a shot of the people who were attacking her to identify them. I would even be willing to testify in court if it came down to that. Really, some people can be so thoughtless and horrible at times.
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baroque
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baroque      When: 22 days ago
I would have definitely done something. I heard about this too and I think it's sick and twisted that no one did. Poor girl. :(
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