Am I too big to be considered attractive?

right no offence sweetie but forget all these other twats... you are beautiful no matter what.
you just need to wait for the right guy to come along.
if I knew you well enough I would ask you out.
size doesn't matter... its personality.
dont ever let anyone tell you that you are not beautiful.
they will be lying.
you're attractive.
i see you as perfection.
so look... just wait for that right guy and I am sure he will turn up.
XcameronX

Some guys like larger women. You don't seem ugly - you have nice long hair, pretty eyes and lips, though ugly =/= unattractive.

If however you dress right for you size, be feminine/sweet/non-abrasive (this includes attitude, body language and how you have your hair and makeup), you'll stand half a chance of bagging a guy.

You may need to move things along to make him infactuated. Touch his arm, stroke his ego, be flirtatious and sexy. Make it known to him you want him. Being shy/coy will get you NOWHERE.

Just don't do it to too many guys too quickly or you'll get some nasty nicknames.

PS Losing 10-20 pounds would do wonders for you. I appreciate your medication isn't helping. Tell your doctor about it, you might get something to help. Also, take up something like swimming or even yoga (yes, yoga - you burn about 300 kcal per hour) - it woun't hurt lungs doing it nearly as much as other sports, but can really help shift the weight, build up muscl tone and improve your stmaina/lung capicity.

if that's you in that picture you are beautiful you have no worries there your inner beauty is what matters but like I said your beautiful

Physique does matter to different people, but the person matters more. You have a beautiful face, and you are blessed in that...because you can lose weight, but you can't change your face. There are many women with good figures, but rather unattractive faces. As a rule of thumb, men are attracted to women originally based on physical attraction alone. That is why they get to know you, (not to say that all men who get to know you are attracted to you) because they find you pretty. After getting to know you a bit they decide if the person matches up to their standards (if they have any, and men looking for a genuine and committed relationship do).

It is, however, not an uncommon occurrence that men will become attracted to women they are close to on the basis of the excellent character and pleasantness to be around. Originally attraction is founded on outward beauty, but long lasting attraction is subject to inward beauty. Mean women don't seem gorgeous very long past the initial infatuation stage. The mistake many men make is getting involved with women before the infatuation dies down a bit to rationally judge her worth. Hormones are something of a thorn in the side.

Just know, if you want to lose weight, you can. It won't happen in a day, but with diligence and a goal you can be whoever you want to be a year from now. If you are confident with your weight, then don't worry. If it troubles you, then work towards losing the extra weight. You don't have to be a supermodel, (most men really don't find them as attractive as society would leave you to believe), but you can fit perfectly into your frame.

Again, you have a lovely face and complexion, and that is something to be happy about. Just work on the fitness for the sake of your confidence and long-term health.


-Count D.

You're you and what you are is beautiful. Don't let people tell you aren't beautiful. No matter what they is ALWAYS someone that loves you for who you are. Also just to put this out there I can't handle girls so skinny the ribs show it makes it hard for me to even be attracted to them. A girl with some belly fat is hot! The only point I draw the line is when the girl has double the width I have lol. Trust me your attractive.

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Coacoa,

You have the the most beautiful face. A nice smile and eyes. You may think "oh you are just an older guy" NO! Even when I was younger your face is what I would have see first.
You can always lose a little weight, but you have to kiss the FACE. You are so young yet, don't let that body image thing hold back such a beautiful girl.
You have been blessed with features that people spend lots of money to try and achieve.
I hope this helps sweetie
Jaycee

i would go for a pretty girl like you:)

Get over here you chubby little kibbler. :)

I'm sure you are very attractive. From you pic you have a very pretty face and semi-smile. Stop letting other's affect your thoughts about yourself. I've seen so many girls out there with a couple extra pounds that are very attractive.
Smile! You deserve it :-)

From your profile pic you look mad good! =)

If you have a boyfriend, he's already proved that you're attractive!

No I don't think you're too big to be attractive, you have to be pretty shallow and thick headed guy if you judge a girl like you for that.There's more to people than their looks or weight and so on :)

you're cute, id take you out

Males are attracted to toned females because that's how society and our instincts work. Plus in my experience to have sex with a heavier female made me feel like I was on top of a water bed. No offence to the girls that are over weight

watch shallow hal

honestly, you have a great face, but the weight is turning me off, I'm a type of guy that works out everyday and if I'm going to date someone, I want that same person to be as taken care of with their body as I am... looks do matter, and you can tell me all the personality blah blah blah you want... but when it actually comes down to it... it really does matter... I can also tell that if you do loose that weight, you would fill out really really well. I'm sure your a nice person at heart and all, but if your looking for a really hott guy and such, well you need to take care of your body just like they do. just like I have to take care of myself to get really attractive girls to look at me, it isn't free and you need to work on it. that cameron guy can call us guys twats all he wants... but in reality you are the one still datless and he can't do sh*t about that... only YOU can... but if you aren't looking for those hot guys etc and just want to settle with an average joe type of guy who likes you for who you are as a personality... well... then that's cool to... =) hows that for honesty?

i think your good looking. don't worry about weight.

dam ur sexy what's your number?

It all depends on the person. Some people like big girls, some don't.

For me personally it becomes an issue when they start making excuses about how big they are, and don't look after their health generally. In my experience big girls like to complain a lot. I don't need someone who complains.

ughh... gotta see your face then I'll tell you :)

a little thickness neever hurt anyone you are beautiful...i can't imagine who wouldn't think so

depends on the guy probably
if he is bigger, he would be more likely to find you sexy...

No! SO not. Some guys really love bigger girls, and almost every guy loves to see some curves rather than someone who looks like a twelve year old boy ( no offense to skinny girls ) Also, how tall are you? Because I am 5'9" and 150 to 160 pounds, and I am techinally almost overweight but don't look it!

Attraction can come in many forms.
Looks-wise some people may not find you attractive because of the weight.
But who wants to just be found just physically attractive anyways?
Beauty fades so as long as your personality shines through you'll pick up the ones that really matter and that are into you for the right reasons.

First of all, depending on your height and frame, that may not be all that "heavy". I'm built like my father, but manage to disguise my weight fairly well. Most people aren't even close in guessing my weight.

You have to accept yourself and be confident with your body before you can expect other people to. When we're comfortable in our own skin, we appear more attractive to people. I've seen larger girls (myself included) seem more attractive than itty bitty women, because they carry themselves with pride and are aware of their own bodies. And THAT is sexy.

As long as you're getting enough exercise, and wear clothes that fit well, you should be strutting yourself all over town! You've got curves, FLAUNT 'EM! ;)


Best of luck.

Okay all the fat and ugly people need to relax! You are so pretty and I can promise you that BUT Shawn is right, if you lost a bit of weight you would like 10x better. 185-190 isn't massive but its pretty big. Work out a little, you'll feel better and gain more confidence which btw will have a positive affect on your personality.

Personality is MOST important but looks are important too and I'm not a shallow person, I'm just an average girl, I'm not super skinny but I'm just right because I try to stay active. You're attractive despite the fact that you're kinda big but trust me girl you'll be even more gorgeous if you took better care of your body! =D

You can be big and healthy! I mean who's healthier a girl that eats right & work out often but can't drop the weight, or a skinny girl that sits around and eats junk food and doesn't know what the inside of a gym looks like but stays skinny. I am sick of these generalizations. If you don't look too heavy and distribute your weight well throughtout your body, then it makes you curvy and guys like that :) Judging by your avatar, you are a very beautiful girl. Some guys could care a damn less about weight and go for the girl with an awesome face. Be yourself, be confident (it influences how people think of you) and take on the world & make it yours! It sounds corny, but live it!

I think that being bigger may lessen your chances of being considered attractive. However, that's not what's wrong with being over weight. With being overweight comes many health problems and complications. It's important to be healthy, and find a weight that's right for you and maintain it. Guys like it when girls take care of themselves. Besides, you have a pretty face.

You look cute in your profile pic, but I think the way you took it would hide any extra weight you might have. So I can't really tell from that. From the number though, I would think that's just too much unless you're really tall. If you're under 6' being 185 has to make you look kind of lumpy if you're naked and guys do care about that.

i think you're pretty in your profile pic. yes I'm gonna be honest, from one big girl to the next, weight has a huuuge issue on people being attracted to you. yeah there are some guys that are attracted to big women, but they are few and far between compared to the ones that dont. also there are guys that may like heavier girls, but don't want to admit it because of what their peers might think. those are the guys you want to stay away from. so in conclusion, if you lose the weight you'll have more options and guys will like you more.

Maybe you might need to lose a couple pounds and then you might feel differently about yourself. Good luck