Pot: Hot or not?

i have done my fair share of smoking the reefer. and I have to say it is a turn off to me now. I use to find it cool if a girl could rip a bong but now I'm pretty against it. you don't need that kind of stuff to enjoy lifes beauty!

few glasses of red wine or a beer is good enough for me.

I think it depends - I know that in relationships, people need time and space to themselves in order for the relationship to be healthy. However, if people never spend time together, that's not healthy either. So, I think that it probably depends on whether the person is doing something that is totally necessary or not. If it's not something that is necessary for their growth as a person or for their career, it is probably something that could be cut out of their lives. However, I know some people who absolutely love their work and totally get engrossed in it. I think this is ok if you are single, but that there needs to be a balance when you are with someone. I have a friend whose husband is completely consumed with his work and she is very unhappy with her life and her career and feels insecure because her husband does not spend a lot of time with her. She tends to try to find ways to fill her life with other people and almost ended up cheating on him because of him never spending time with her and not giving her what she evidently needed. However, since she didn't have anything of her own going on that she really loved, she probably was trying to get what she needed from the marriage but never really found any fulfillment there. He seemed to be pretty well fulfilled with his work and she probably felt like he didn't need her. Personally, I think it's totally cool when someone has a job that they really love, but not if they are married to it! This is just my personal opinion. :)

Cigar weed and whiskey and the wild wild woman, they'll drive you crazy, they'll drive you insane.


yes like it, and I feel ok with.

Better then him doing coke, but since he is a minor it's technically ruining his life.

Personally I find it to be a turn off, Like what soulman said, it messes with them, some stuff makes them crazy, others make them distant, but it always makes them different.

Over use of any drug can be a turn off, whether it's pot, alcohol, or cigarettes. It messes with the person.

I voted it as a complete turn off. Back in the day, I used to think it was cool. Now that I am 26 years old, I find it to be a turn off. It seems childish to do and I have just outgrown that, but maybe that is just something that comes with age. :-)

Pot is fine in moderation. I smoke it, but I'm not a pothead and you wouldn't know unless I told you.