I'm not really materialistic when it comes down to it, but I've noticed that when I'm on break and am looking at the jewelry to waste time, I'm drawn more to the higher quality diamonds. Not the biggest ones, but not the glittery specks, either.
Basically, though, just think about what you think would be perfect for your girl. What would she like? Does she like flashy? Elegant? etc. Depending on what you're buying (sounds like a ring, but I won't assume), you might ask one of your girl friends (friend-girls? lol) who knows her what kind she thinks would suit her, then let your friend go home and you can choose from there. Just make sure that YOU are the one choosing the jewelry, not the friend.
This is a personal thing, but my #1 concern was that it be conflict-free.
I'd never actually said anything about it specifically, because I'd never really even thought about wanting a diamond ring, but when my then boyfriend decided he wanted to buy an engagement ring, he seemed to know and made sure it was certified. Big props for that.
In terms of size, quality, clarity, company etc. I couldn't care less. It's more about the effort that you've gone to, and the thought you've put into in choosing something you (let's be honest) don't give a crap about, entirely for her. Unless your girl is really materialistic, if you put a lot of thought into what you think she'd like and what she values, she'll be very happy.
Personally I could give a shit less if my man bought me a diamond, or any type of jewelry I am not materialistic I am more simple like get me some sunflowers, or daisy's not even rose's eww a teddy bear!
Nothing fancy for me xD of course when it comes to my wedding day I want a ring like my moms a emerald not flashy though, and a silver band! Gold is just to "Oh look at me"
Size is not a big thing to me, I could live without diamonds, their rocks/stones pretty much, but like I said, size doesn't matter it's the thought of it that counts.
I would care more about quality than size, but more than either, I would care about the guy that gave it to me! If I think he's the guy for me, it's not going to matter if he gives me a gigantic rock or a speck of shiny dust on a gold band, because what will matter is that HE gave it to me.
If I cared - that is probably the quality but I don't! Diamonds to me are like rocks (they are rocks) well minerals - whatever but yea to me they are the kinda rocks that you find on the ground cause they have no meaning to me! A woman shouldn't care the size of the ring she's getting, or which company it's from she should care whether the guy that gave it to her will love her forever! But that's just my opinion!
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