I like your question. Girls like me look for stuff we have in common, their style, whether they give compliments or not. But those are the minor things. If you want to really know ask the girl you're tight with and she'll give you some answers. When I mean tight I mean like close friend.
In terms of looks what attracts me is broad shoulders, a good build (but not too overly muscly), nice strong arms and a pleasant face. But some or all of that isn't necessary if I get to know the guy. I like a guy that I know can take care of me, someone with the same values and morals as me, a guy I can share everything with. So I guess that would mean he'd have to be someone responsible, honest and trustworthy. I'd also like for him to share his thoughts and feelings with me. I think it works both ways, I would want him to be there for me and I'd also want to be there for him when he needs me. Guys who are able to make me laugh are very attractive to me also.
The other thing I look for in a guy is how he is with his family, particularly the female members and most especially his mum. My mum has always told me that if a guy treats his mother with the utmost love and respect, you know he is decent and will treat you well.
As much as the broad shoulders and 6-pack abs are nice, in the end what matters to us girls are what's on the inside. It really depends on each girl, but I would say in the end we all come down to this - a guy who will love us for who we are. Being comfortable is the ultimate key we look for in a relationship. I definitely don't want to try so hard to meet expectations because following after are let downs. Make her feel like she's worth it, don't cheat, be honest, and love her if she's the one.
I belong to the 30 and up age bracket, what I look for in a guy may be different from those who are younger , because I am now into long term relationships and hopefully the last one that may lead to marriage. So I am looking for a guy with no hang ups, specifically a clean single guy with no past that would haunt us in the future. Someone who is stable financially, was not a cheater during his past relationships, looks really don't matter much anymore unlike when I was much younger. A person whom I can talk to and could converse really well, funny is important to me too. I also see to it that the guy has good values instilled in him. I may sound really boring and old fashioned, but these are the characteristics that I made sure I have and kept, so someday if I meet the right guy, he would be proud of me and would make him feel really special with no worries and insecurities.
It depends on the girl but I would have to say a good personality the guy is nice to me doesn't matter if he's a jerk to everyone else but at the end of the day I know the real him and he treats me right just makes me laught. And like a connection with him it might sound dumb but you know when guys like a girl right for whatever reason? Well girls have to or at least I have to feel something for that person but we all are different good luck!
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