Why do girls think they have to give themselves up?

There are a lot of insecure people in the world, and if one of them is with someone they care about and don't want to lose and he/she sees their significant other notice someone trashy or think that's what he/she wants, then they may try and imitate to impress. I don't think that's a very wise decision, you should be able to trust the person you're with, but isn't it understandable?

I have low self esteem but I wouldn't be like that if a guy likes me and I like him I'm not going to jump into bed or anything like that straight away that will all come in good time guys like that aren't into you for you there just looking to get some and if a girl goes for that kinda guy well then its half there fault for allowing them self to be used but there are some guys that are really good at talking there way into your knickers and seem so genuine when there not.

I guess some girls are afraid that if they don't do things with a guy, he'll lose interest in them cos it's not exciting enough for him. And I guess we all know that guys are very sexual creatures so maybe there's the worry that if they don't do things with him, he'll look for it elsewhere.

They have low self esteem and don't really know how men work. I grew up around a lot of men and they pretty much taught me the game at a young age. But a lot of girls haven't had that experience, so they think they have to give sex freely to get love. Maybe you'll have his attention for a little bit but I'd rather have my self respect & dignity forever.

Also there are a lot of guys who won't deal with girls who don't put out. So a lot of girls put out so they won't be alone. I'd rather be alone than be with a guy who doesn't really care about me.

If a guy is not into the things I am interested in and isn't willing to try something new out then why would I bother with him lol I love many male dominated things like Hockey so going to hockey with a guy would be amazing. I would even know more than the sport about him :)

If I don't want to try something that the guy is into then I won't. If I want to I will. Simple as that. Too many girls act all fake pretending to like something when they really don't, just to get a guy. I know many men love cars. Cars are not really my thing but I'm willing to learn about them. One day I may have to fix a car and with training from a guy friend/lover, I would be able to do that.

Well, from what I know, its the guys that lead us into thinking that we HAVE to do something with them. A guy who can be nice and warming and tell you that he loves you and then wants more. And claims to be wanting more. Would eventually cause the girl to agree because the girl doesn't want to lose the guy (because she really loves him).

One of my friends had deep feelings for this guy and he manipulated her into "doing things" with him. And he really was playing all along. And she agreed because she didn't want to lose the him because in her mind "they were made for each other" she didn't want to give herself up. I guess you can say. She was "trapped into giving herself up" and plus. Most guys (from what I have seen) get turned off by a girl who wouldn't go past the red line.

Not sayin' there aren't any guys who don't respect that. There are. But I haven't seen any yet. But I'm sure there are.

This is very interesting.

So, how are men being so manipulative? Because, I gotta say, girls can be just as bad and it really depends on how weak/naive the other person is that falls into these traps.

But curiously, why did you feel you had to call out on this and help the ladies out? Thanks for the sincerity.

Well. It's because some guys lead girls on into thinking that stuff and from my experiences its mostly what they[this one guy]want. Like okay lets say this guy tells me all this stuff I really do have feeling for him but then he starts talkin about doing more I think to myself well if I don't talk to him about it then he won't like me anymore.
now that I really think about it I know its something dumb to do but wow you got me thinking lol.
well I know that he brought it up and I had to go along with it well I didn't have to but I don't know I would think he wouldn't like me the same.