So I've been talking to this guy who has mutual friends. We've been talking for almost two weeks pretty much everyday. He tells me that he's falling for me, and that he has a different feeling about me than any other girl who he's met and that he really thinks we're going to be together for a long time and that he never wants to loose me and how much he loves me, I'm 16 and he's 18. I know that that's really weird, but the convos are so natural. He's a really great guy and always says the right things. I know he sounds like a player, but I'm pretty sure he's not that type of guy.
But anyways he hasn't seen me FULLY yet. I have a really nice face but I'm not 100% skinny. I'm not fat either. I eat healthy and work out weekly. I'm thick. But tomorrow I'm going to see him in person, and I'm really scared that he's going to turn me down because of my thickness since I've been turned down before because of it even though I was A LOT heavier when that happened.
So does his feelings for me even out the negativeness of my not 100% great body?
Update: Ha forgot to add that also he's a really good looking guy. A lot of girls like him. He's fit too.
5 months ago
Update: Ha this is old, anyways we've been dating ever since I asked this question (: so he definitely wasn't bothered by me being thick
2 months ago
Feelings get you to a certain point, and then physical attraction gets you to a certain point. When you put them both together, then you have a good foundation to build a relationship on. He may or may not be physically attracted to you (he should, thick girls are better then anorexic ones) but on the other hand he very well may be attracted. Just make sure that whatever the case is, the relationship has both levels, otherwise it won't last long if it even gets off the ground in the first place.
if he's worth it hell like you plus you sound like you healthy and that's good isn't it? I wouldn't worry just pay more attention on being around him but be careful if you met him online x
I've seen so many studies on this it's not even funny. Guys will almost always date a thick girl who has a PRETTY face than an ugly girl who has a hot body. Don't worry about it, have fun!
I am sure he will like you just the way you are. Especially when he already says that he thinks that you are going to be together for a long time! and in case he is going to turn you down. Then he wasn't worth it and you deserve better ;)
As long as you didn't lie about your body and say you were a tiny chick, then you have nothing to worry about :) If you don't act self-conscious about yourself, then he'll be way less prone to notice! If he acts nervous don't take it in a bad way, he's probably just nervous about seeing you in person for the first time after professing his love for you. Don't worry about your body, you're beautiful, just get to know him in real life now and see where it goes :)
I just thought I'd speak out about this because I'm 18 years old my friends range from 16 to 19 but a lot of my friends and people I know are 16 /17! And to be honest I'm shocked that girls now a days...
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