First off, I realize I'm in no way old. I'm a late bloomer. I've not had my first kiss. (23 going on awkward pre-teen. ) Anyway, considering that I tend to like guys who are around my age or even older, it's likely that they've done some kissing. I'm not completely sure how it works to be honest. Movies and television have taught me nothing! Anyway:
1) If/when my first kiss happens or is about to, would it be important for me to tell him? (I know it's quite important the first time one is having sex. )
2) Do guys find it a turn-off that a chick is a late bloomer?
1) I would say to let him know. But my perspective is somewhat unique as I'm in the same boat as you. I've kissed a girl on the lips but that's it. I think it'd just be nice to know. I think it'd be really nice if both parties were "late bloomers" as you put it and you two could learn together. That's how I kinda imagine it. :)
2) No, not at all.
Per one of the comments below, if a guy starts getting controlling if you were to tell them, I'd just, well I guess I'd say tell 'em to back off. UNLESS, they were trying to do so in a teaching and loving manner.
Kissing is one of those things that should be figured out with your partner. So long as you have a general idea of it, and don't take things too seriously (be willing to laugh when you bump teeth) it'll go fine. You'll be horrible at first, (I'd wager everyone is) and you'll eventually get better with practice, fooling around, and knowledge of your gent. I'd suggest you play it by ear; if you think he'd find it special, or you want to use it to laugh off some tension, then tell him, yes.
As for the second, actually, I'd find it attractive, and cute, in a way. How many guys (over the age of twenty) can say they got to be their girlfriend's first kiss?
I think its a turn on. It means you have been with less people and it allows the guy to take control giving him more confidence. You don't need to mention it but say if the kiss was very awkward, you could say "sorry, I'm new at this" in a flirty way and just laugh or giggle it off.
I wish there were more guys in this world that thought this way..it would be so much easier for us newbies to come out and say we're a a little inexperienced..myself personally I tend not to tell guys because they start controlling me the second I tell them... - 8 months ago
You shouldn't have to tell the guy anything about being a late bloomer. And honestly its a turn on for all guys when they find out the girl their with hasn't been with anyone else. I'm 22yrs old and I had my first kiss at 19 and lets just say I'm a late bloomer in some ways still but I'm waiting for the rite moment and guy. Trust me you'll know when the time is rite. It all comes natural. And remember never let any guy pressure you into doing anything that you don't feel comfortable with doing.
I wouldn't exactly include the words "late bloomer". But I'm quite sure I'll be terrible first time around.
And I'd be uncomfortable because again, I'm unsure of how to kiss. - 8 months ago
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Ok..instead of late bloomer it could be your new at things...and there's no real preference on how to kiss....have some confidence in yourself...for your first kiss you will be uncomfortable..but think to yourself how you would want to be kissed and kiss the guy that way..you never know if he'll like it or not until you try... - 8 months ago
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