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Why are men sweethearts?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 6 months ago
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Personally I was never a sweetheart. However, I know a lot of guys who are. What's a sweethearts you ask? A sweethearts is a nice way of saying pussy's. For example that pay for girls phone bills, bring them shopping. The worst part is that they aren't even hitting it or married to them I can understand if they were. Its like they put the pussy on the pedestal. Can someone explain it to me please why?

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Belleza (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Ooookkkk. Interesting! How about learning the signs first or how about it for once in your life not "hitting that" but when the time comes she'll rightfully give it to you. And just so you know if I ever call a guy a sweetheart - I call him only when he says something nice - get your facts straight!
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Question Asker I guess your trying to tell me that they are working to that point of a "Relationship" right. If that the case then I don't want to be in that kind of relationship, plus it isn't guaranteed. I mean like I ain't a cheap guy I will and do take care of anyone of my friends, but not A chick that I just met a month ago. Another thing is girls have been fighting for the same rights as men for so long now its 2008 you ladies received it. Pay your own bills lol by the way nice, giving is a Sweetheart in my book - 6 months ago
Answerer Ok whatever what can I do if all a guy wants to do is go nuts cause apparently he has to pay and just so you know I do pay for myself all the time I don't expect a guy to take out his own money to pay for me on a date or to do my nails or to go shopping I'm independent as they come and no "sweetie" NICE is a Sweetheart in my book! - 6 months ago
Question Asker Lol why do I picture you a little angry when you wrote this but anyways you might not expect him to pay but it happens he should pay if he goes to dinner with you in company. Another thing is ur right you can't do anything about him always wanting to pay. I mean it could just be a weird "fetish". By the way I guess everyone got there opinion on the word Sweetheart but truthly. According to my Hallmark card Sweetheart is a person's significant other. - 6 months ago
Answerer Ugh I give up - you know seriously when I talk to a guy all they do is go uhuh like they're listening but all your really doing is go like this what the heck is she talking about! Am I right or wrong - oh by the way you are so lucky your anonymous cause all I would've done is sent you a 2 page essay on how to treat a girl or listen to her and yes I was angry thank you very much! - 6 months ago

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irish-girl-08 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Lol ok 1st off I don't understand it either like I wouldn't pay for a guys clothes or stuff etc. So why would he pay for mine? I know girls who use guys for it and I just think omg earn your own money you can't depend on a guy for everything! So guys if yous are paying for all this stiff the minute you stop so will seeing the girl!
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Rafael151 A very good point about what happens when the money diminishes. If things are often in the form of gifts, it becomes increasingly hard to out-do what you gave her last time and impress her. Eventually something prevents you from doing what she is accustomed to. And if she is one to keep track, then it may be taken as a sign that the romance is fading. This is more true if she's competing with others for status. It could even be an ex she wants to get back at. - 6 months ago
Answerer Yeah and I just want to say as well if a guys a sweetheart it doesn't mean he's a pussy it just means he's nice I don't know what you would call a guy who foots a girls bills a fool maybe lol - 6 months ago
Question Asker Thank you for understanding me finally A chick that agrees with me (Not to say there isn't a lot. ) However, I don't blame the chicks for taking there (guys) money if there willing to give it up. Who wouldn't accept free money lol. The funny thing from personally experience with friends they never learn. For example, if that guy finally realizes that it isn't going no where with the girl He will stop paying her bills and move on to the next girl to pay her bills. - 6 months ago
Answerer Lol yeah I tend to agree with guys more to be honest because most of us girls look at things and make are on little thing up that has nothing to actually to do with it! Not all girls though lol - 6 months ago
 

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DeanW (Age:30 to 35)      When: 6 months ago
Will: So what's this? A Taster's Choice moment between guys? This is really nice. You got a thing for swans? Is this like a fetish? It's something, like, maybe we need to devote some time to?

Sean: I thought about what you said to me the other day, about my painting. Stayed up half the night thinking about it. Something occurred to me and I fell into a deep, peaceful sleep and haven't thought about you since. You know what occurred to me?

Will: No.
Sean: You're just a kid. You don't have the faintest idea what you're talking about.
Will: Why, thank you.
Sean: It's all right. You've never been out of Boston.
Will: Nope.
Sean: So if I asked you about art you'd probably give me the skinny on every art book ever written...Michelangelo? (beat) You know a lot about him. Life's work, political aspirations, him and the pope, sexual orientation, the whole works, right? But I bet you can't tell me what it smells like in the Sistine Chapel. You've never actually stood there and looked up at that beautiful ceiling. Seen that.....If I asked you about women you'd probably give me a syllabus of your personal favorites. You may have even been laid a few times. But you can't tell me what it feels like to wake up next to a woman and feel truly happy. You're a tough kid. I ask you about war, and you'd probably--uh--throw Shakespeare at me, right? "Once more into the breach, dear friends." But you've never been near one. You've never held your best friend's head in your lap and watched him gasp his last breath, looking to you for help.

And if I asked you about love you'd probably quote me a sonnet. But you've never looked at a woman and been totally vulnerable. Known someone who could level you with her eyes. Feeling like God put an angel on earth just for you...who could rescue you from the depths of hell. And you wouldn't know what it's like to be her angel and to have that love for her to be there forever. Through anything. Through cancer. You wouldn't know about sleeping sitting up in a hospital room for two months holding her hand because the doctors could see in your eyes that the term visiting hours don't apply to you.

You don't know about real loss, because that only occurs when you love something more than you love yourself. I doubt you've ever dared to love anybody that much. I look at you; I don't see an intelligent, confident man; I see a cocky, scared shitless kid.
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Belleza A very interesting point you made! - 6 months ago
Question Asker Ahaha What the hell did I just read lol. Hold on. How did you fit all that in one comment. Anyways me cocky no just confident and common sense. You went out to a whole different topic man I am not talking about Love and Death ok Romeo. I am talking about guys (friends) paying bills for random girls they met a month ago. Wow I'm sorry man ,but you gonna need to copy and paste that somewhere else. Try someone with that Topic and that has time because that was damn long lol - 6 months ago
 
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