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What should I tell my shy sister to do?

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choclova111 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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My little sister who is twelve has a crush on this boy at our church, and she said she could always tell he was looking at her well not always, always, but she really likes him and she is super duper shy like really shy, she won't even talk in her class at church but when she does her face turns pink and red.

Anyway our brother might ask what his name is on sunday at church but only if she asks what a girls name is that he likes but she is to shy, what should I tell her to do? She really like this boy.

Update: She would very most likely talk to him back if he talked to her first.    3 months ago

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dohcrwd (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
I think you should stay away, let them handle their business.

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Question Asker But she asked me and I don't wanna ignore her. She is really shy and I don't wanna make her upset by ignoring her - 3 months ago
Answerer If you make any comment and things don't work out she is gonna blame you for it. - 3 months ago
Question Asker Yeah, I guess, but I don't know if I would rather try to help and get blamed or ignore her and then her possible ignore me, but I guess I could tell her I don't' really know what to do, huh? She will most likely understand cause she does understand that kinda stuff, she's really nice and caring to. - 3 months ago

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ncstrike (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
Sounds like me And spartacus should save are selfs some trouble and marry each other because I'm the same way, I would just tell her what I would do and help her come up with her own plan make sure she knows there are 3 billion men in the world he's not the only 1
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Question Asker Well she is little and she can sometimes get her feelings hurt so I don't just wanna say "Just get over him" and be rude I really don't want her to be mad at me cause she is my step-sister and she really looks up to me and it wasn't easy to get her to like me cause our two familys didn't get along very well, and I don't know what I would really do in that stop. - 3 months ago
 

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Bonita94 (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
Just don't worry about it, tell her that you don't know what to do (cuz you dont) and let it turn ou however it's gonna turn out. Either a) she'll get the boy or b) she'll learn from the experience and be able to figure out herself that there are 3 billion other guys out there. Either way it has a pretty good ending and you don't get blamed for giving the wrong advice.
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Question Asker Thanks that really helped. - 3 months ago
Answerer Your welcome, I'm glad it did :) - 3 months ago

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Jamilah (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
Heres the thing, she a kid, love comes and love goes, let her feel it out, in case it doesn't work, at least she cannot blame her entire love life on you.
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Spartacus (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
She sounds exactly like I was as a kid (and still am). I've had guys who I thought were cute in middle school and high school as well, which led me to like them. Some of them even liked me back. However, I was still too shy to talk to them. Nonetheless, it was fun to have a crush and picture myself "going out" with these guys. Even if she knows his name, will she be able to talk to him? If he tries talking to her, will she be able to talk back? If so, I'd say that she should definitely go for it and just ask the girl for her name. She could even say " My brother thinks you're cute and wants to know your name. " That would have made it easier for me.

Also, if your sister has a friend in the class who she's comfortable talking to, she can get her to ask the other for her name.
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Question Asker Ok thanks - 3 months ago
 
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