So my friends threw me a surprise party last week. It was really nice and all until I had to go back to school. One of my friends wasn't invited. She was told it was because no one wanted her there, all she ever does is talk about herself. If she was there she would haven't wanted everyone to throw her a surprise party too. Now she's upset because she says she doesn't always talk about herself. I feel torn because I feel bad that she didn't come, but I get why she wasn't invited. I don't know what my friends think anymore, they constantly change sides on who they support and they all seem to look to me to see which side I'm on. It's as if as long as I'm on their side they're right. I'm trying to be nice to both of them and look at it from both the sides. I just don't know what to tell them because I don't want to hurt their feelings, but they're making me so upset I can't take it any more! please give me some advice on this.
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: 7 months ago
Molly? I'm almost positive this is you....
If not I'm in the same situation except I was the one not invited.
Yep exactly.... But I don't get how the only thing I talk about it myself. I honestly don't mean to. I just never realized it I guess. How can I make this better? I never wanted to be in this situation.
It just it hurts to hear people say that about me when I didn't get y. And I was the only one invited within our little group...
And this is the only thing that's been on my mind since then and now everything seems to be going wrong... :(
Hey brandi, I'll talk to you about this later. I don't feel up to it right now though, I was taking the day off to get away from this, but seeing as you found this I guess I won't. Just so you know I really do care about you. I'll talk to you about this later though. - 7 months ago
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: 7 months ago
I think what you're doing is good. You're showing love to both sides, and there's never anything wrong with loving. I'm sorry you feel torn about this. It will pass. Maybe you could explain to your friends how the girl who didn't get invited is your friend, and you care about her feelings.
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