Do you play hard to get?

Honestly, I detest the whole "hard to get" thing. It just makes the girl seem like she's not interested, or like she's playing head games, so I move on.

The way I see it, playing "hard to get" is trying to make a game out of something serious. And I feel that I have reached an age where I shouldn't have to deal with games anymore.

I do all the time. I see it as a test to see if the girl is really interested in getting to know me or if she realizes that I am not worth her time. If the girl is playing hard to get then I don't mind so long as I eventually win her heart within a couple of months otherwise I'll just move on.

Yep. But I make sure, when I do play hard to get - I do it properly. I don't want the guy to think I am not interested. That would suck. But, majority of the time I do it to test the other person, to see how much they like me to chase me I guess.

There are times when I do it to show them I am not interested. For me, depending on the situation, It works both way.

I, honestly, hadn't met a guy who played hard to get with me. But, who knows - maybe it'll happen.

When I used to date back in the days, I used to play hard to get with the guys I liked. I love the chase! But I was never impossible to get. If I wasn't interested in the guy I would tell him straight forward because I would never want to mislead anybody. That's not cool.

Now, do I like when men play hard to get? As a matter of fact, I do! As long as he doesn't play too hard to get. I was never attracted to guys who were too available. Men should be a little unpredictable with the girl they like. It gives them a touch of mystery and intrigue, which is very sexy!

As a female, I would say yes I do, but just a little and that is always *before* the relationship officially starts. It's like a little test to see if he truly likes me. If he does, he will pass the test. However, it should never be too hard - otherwise the guy will see this as your insecurity.

Personally I don't know any guys who play "hard to get," but I do know girl mates who do it overboard and it maddens the guy cos he thinks he's being "played" around.