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Mutual feelings or not?

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stardust (Age:25 to 29)     When: 7 months ago
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How would one go about finding out if a guy's feelings are mutual or not? I don't want to freak him out, but I also don't want to get myself hurt by thinking there is something there that might not be. I'm getting so many mixed signals, and he is super shy. We get along great and we get right to this point where I think something will happen and then he seems to pull away? Maybe just nerves? How can I find out without it getting weird?

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Gia65 (Age:36 to 45)      When: 7 months ago
Communication is the key to your answer. Most or should I say the majority of us have a hard time expressing our feelings because we fear rejection.

I believe in learning to communicate, clear, concise messages .

I know it can be awkward but think of it as practice. The more we practice our communication skills the better we get at communicating our needs and wants. You would like to know if he is attracted to you and if he has thought about dating you exclusively?

What's the worse thing that can happen? He will answer, yes or no I only consider us friends. You still have a friend, Right? Nothing ventured, nothing gain. A clear cut question won't cause you to lose a friend, maybe a little anxiety but you will survive.

Acknowledge how you feel about him, state if your comfortable in his company, tell him he is a good listener, a good kisser.whatever it is.men who are shy and less aggressive need a little assurance.tell him you find him attractive, that you like him, care for him a great deal.and ask him to share what he think about you, and how he feels.

This is life's process.expressing our feelings.

If the answer is yes to the attraction and dating then you go from there, one day at a time and see what develops who knows you two could become exclusive.

Good luck Honey and I truly hope it's mutual feelings.
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Bubbles (Age:25 to 29)      When: 7 months ago
Communication, the person I liked just came out and said the feeling was mutual. So I didn't have to work to get it out of him, but he also new I liked him to. Does he know you like him? To get my answer from him I asked questions.
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