Question for other girls-what should I tell my friend?

Ok, I'm sorry but you sound just like this one girl I know. How can you have a crush on a guy you don't know? Maybe if you knew the person your friend was insulting I would take you seriously, but right now you're a joke. Which is more important to you, your friend's feelings or a person who will never care that you exist.

oh my god! that's so weird. I had the same exact problem about my friend and her insulting david archuleta. what I did (and it worked) was I kind of realized maybe she was getting annoyed by me talking about him ALL the time. so I laid off a little bit. but she still said crap about him. I sat her down and said "look I get that your annoyed, but he's really cute and ya know, like addicting in a way" she said "yeah its super annoying! you don't shut up." so I told her that I got pissed when she talked trash about him. it was just her way of dealing. so we worked it out and I don't talk about him anymore around her. and when I let it slip, :) she just looks at me and then I'm just like ohh yeah! sorry. so we worked it out that way and I hope you can too!