Guys will make fun of me and I will say something like "get a life" or make another statement that could get me in trouble while in school. so am I really that mean.
no. they're being mean! come on. they make fun of you. your pretty much just sticking up for yourself. tell some of your friends about it and maybe they will help stick up for you too.
I agree that you're just defending yourself. If they continue to do it, you might also try ignoring them as some people just will try to get a reaction or get a rise out of you. That may be the only reason they're doing it (in other words, they're being arseholes).
Now I wouldn't necessarily stoop to their level or get yourself into trouble because of what they said to you. If so, they "win" and you look like the bad guy and have to pay the penalty. Try to ignore them if you can. I wasn't the most popular in high school ('cept when it came to test time) and I tried ignoring them. For the most part it works.
Thank you for answering. my teachers understand what they do to me some care and some don't for the teachers who don't they just tell me to say sorry. but thank you for taking the time to answer my question, it really does mean a lot - 6 months ago
If they are being playful then yea it could come off as mean and its definitely a turn off when a girl doesn't show a good sense of humor. Some guys are joking but are still being assholes. Don't encourage the asshole behavior. But if they are being playfully mean they could very well be trying to flirt with you. There is a balance and right now they are trying to figure out what's too far and if you don't fire back at them when it upsets you they will never stop.
Thank you for your answer. I really appreciate it. Guys really don't flirt with me or make fun of me in a playful way its just there way of making themself feel better. They only say say "jk" when a teacher hears what was going on. But thanks anyway I appreciate all answers. lol - 6 months ago
i have been told many times from guys that if they're just joking and I say something really rude and serious, it's rude and unattractive. if you know they're just joking, I would just joke back, but let them know you they're being mean by simply saying something like "you're being so mean". If they're not joking, shame on them and good for you! there's times you have to fight fire with fire, but know your limitations.
I agree but I just can't hurt someone that much. I can't hurt people the way they have hurt me. I think that in Hilary Duff's song "Haters" she was very accurate. lol - 6 months ago
No, you are definitely not mean. The boys are mean to make fun of you in the first place. I am so glad that you stood up for yourself, because the same thing happened to me for a long time, and sadly, I just went along with it. It's not about being mean, it's about standing up for yourself. But, since it's school, no curse words. Tell them that they are being rude for no reason. Those people don't even care about your feelings, so why care about theirs?
Thank you for answering my question. I only care about there feelings because I was raised to care about everyone and put everyone first. I really appreciate the time you took to answer. Thank you. - 6 months ago
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