Never told him about our baby

Tell him. Its going to be tough. The longer you wait the worse it will be. You also don't want your son resenting you because he doesn't know his father. If you can tell him in person, tell him alone but have your son nearby. Definitely tell him. you will feel better once you did. He probably will freak out which is to be expected. So be ready for it.

Definitely tell him. Don't feel like you are dropping a bomb on him. You had the bomb drop on you and you already went through all of the pain of labor alone.

How did you lose his contact info? Was it just a fling meeting with him?

The longer you wait, the worse off you are because he has the right to know. But first prepare yourself before you do confront him. Think about what you want to say to him and prepare for the reactions he will have. Are you going to ask for support if he does not volunteer it? Would you be willing to let him go if he does not want to be a part of your son's life? Remember that even though he may freak out, remember what thoughts you had when you first found out yourself that you were pregnant. It's a burden to carry on your conscience and raising a child is a big load to carry all by yourself. And in the end, you owe it to your son.

Best of luck to you. It will surely work out, as long as this guy is not some crazy lunatic. He is a human that can love and help others. He may not like to hear this sudden news but damn, these things happen when you don't take precautions, - not to sound like a preacher or anything. This will be one more person in your son's life that can hopefully provide more love and guidance to your son as he grows into a man himself.

You have to tell him. Just from a moral standpoint, it's not fair for him or for your son. They need to know about each other. Even if they never have any contact at all, they need to know the other exists. It will be hard, and I understand that you had a fight so you don't really like each other. That's understandable. Even if (for some reason completely unknown to me) he doesn't want to know about his son, he should anyway. Because, ultimately, it's not about the two of you. It's about your son. He needs to know his father.

Good Luck and Best Wishes!

You need to tell him.invite him over and tell him slowly but warn him.it will be scary and he might be mad at first for a while but if he has a heart he will be the father to that baby.a baby can't grow up without a father.he will always feel incomplete.be sure to tell him really-I don't know why you wouldn't.