she'd be amazing to be around. smart, beautiful, friendly, shares the same interests, watches sports, can cook but enjoys my cooking, That'd be my dream girl in a nutshell. money would be nice, but it can't buy you happiness.
I wouldn't want to marry a girl. I'd want to marry a woman. There's a difference. But here's what I would look for in a woman.
1) She'd probably have eyes I could totally get lost in. I have a thing for pretty eyes. Hey, if she's pretty, that's a bonus; But I'd want someone who I could still think of as a babe when I'm in my 60's. I've got a friend in his 70's who described his wife as a total babe and a "looker", and I thought that was really cool. I'd love to have a relationship like that.
2) She wouldn't get wrapped up in how much money I make, and if the job went south, and I tried to still contribute, it wouldn't make her divorce me. Girls tend to be insane about what's currently in the bank account, even overlooking potential because of a current situation. Women tend to look at potential and the things BEHIND the man who makes the money.
I understand the need for the man to be supportive, but there are other factors behind that that are more important, like ambition and integrity.
3) Supportive. If I'm having a bad day, I'd want her around to remind me of the reasons she's still around. Someone I could just be quiet with. And she'd be someone who I'd want to do the same for her. Someone who I could sit with and we just cheer each other up.
4) A woman of faith. This is mostly for compatability, but someone who I know is honest and genuine about things, and who we can respect each other during disagreements.
5) She'd have to have a sense of humor, and it'd probably be similar to mine.
6) Someone who isn't quick to anger, and someone who won't just completely shut herself off from me, but someone who will talk to me with the same respect and patience I give her. Someone who isn't insulting or abusive. If we're in an argument, I wouldn't want to bring any of my future kids into the middle of it. And I would hate for her to be the type who makes the kids think daddy is stupid. I'd want someone to bring up stuff, not keep it bottled up, but at hopefully appropriate times, not in front of the friends all the time.
7) I'd prefer a woman who loves kids, and would make a great mom to any kids she and I might decide to have.
8) I'd love a woman who would do nice sweet little things for me (and I would do the same for her), like get some treat I like, or when I'm super busy do one of my chores "just because." A woman who would do nice things without me always having to ask her first.
9) Someone who's affectionate, but who can have her own life outside of me. Someone who can have something interesting to talk about at the end of the week.
10) Someone who I could still date, even into old age. My parents never dated each other after marriage, really. I see a lot of friends whose parents are happily married, and they go out with each other several times a month. I always thought that that was cool. Making time for each other and the relationship.
Those are the important things to me. I hope this answers your question.
DISCLAIMER: I am only stating these preferences to answer your question--I am NOT this picky in real-life, and I would consider any girl within my age group regardless of what's on the outside!
OUTSIDE: age 19-23 5'5-5'10 healthy--she CANNOT Be anorexic has some muscles, a six-pack, slightly built upper body (but not like a bodybuilder) big strong muscular legs and butt 30-34 B,C, or D waist 20-24 hips 32-36 blue eyes blond or dirty-blond hair
INSIDE: smart, as in both street-smart and book-smart has a sense of humor does not always have to politically correct liberal is not afraid to speak her mind can carry a conversation with both of us contributing can like any type of music except country has connections we would be able to talk about anything with each other!
Keep in mind though, for outside, that stuff doesn't REALLY matter to me, except the age. Personality goes a LONG way!
Brunette.or Redhead ;) and yes there's always a place in my heart for blondes too. Easy going, Funny, Flirtatious, Crazy or Silly sense of humor, umm Aggressive ;) . Adventurous, always wanting to go out and do stuff as opposed to being too much of a homebody, although from time to time its nice to chill out at home. What I DEFINITELY don't like is a girl who plays wayy too many games. It's such a waste of time! What else? A sexy sultry voice can't hurt hehe - I will be rendered powerless! Likes to travel and isn't too materialistic / high maintenance. I think that covers most of it.
A woman that understands that I have a lot going on for myself and knows that I am very busy. I also find it attractive if they have their own thing going on. Nothing is sexier than a goal orientated woman with their own passions.
She also has to be open to the fact that my family and I are very close (im half italian and my grandma had a 6 siblings so my family is HUGE).
With all of that mushy stuff said there's nothing like an athletic girl with nice boobs and/or butt shuffling across the dance floor.
great personality outgoing always up for some fun, she has dark hair she is slim but not anorexic she has a great smile and bright eyes she has a cute firm butt and chest I don't know maybe a solid "C" she is competitive but knows when to cut her losses and move on she is also extremely smart and athletic lol IS IT TO MUCH TO ASK FOR? LOL
I don't get why guys always want the woman to cook and clean?!? Why can't that part of a relationship be shared? - 6 months ago
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Lol well I personally cook and clean but that's not the point lol but the thing about cooking is that we guys want someone to take care of us and pamper us every once in a while even though most of us don't really say it and stereotypically its a womans way of thanking their man for supporting their family but now-a-days its just tradition I guess but a considerate person in todays society will agree that that needs to be shared too - 6 months ago
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