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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 6 months ago
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So one of my best friends who is an ex f***ed up big time told me and others that her sister was in the hospital when she wasn't instead she was out doing drugs. To me this is the most disgusting thing I have ever been told it makes me sick just thinking about it. But she is being sincere about it and I truly think she wants to change and I want to see her change should I stick around to make sure she goes through with it because I care a lot about her and want her to stop the drugs or should I just 4get her?/

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girls101 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
tell her that if she keep on doing drugs that you don't want to be her friend and tell her how you feel
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love-redneck-boys (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Don't leave her, if she wants to change you need to be there for her. If you leave her she may not change, she might keep on doing drugs. You said you care a lot about her so stay with her, help her get through this. She needs someone supportive.

My ex was like this, one night he was going through withdrawals really bad, it was insane. I loved him to much to get up and leave, he needed me there.
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allisonbator513 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
You should definetly not leave her, if you leave her she will feel like she has no support and she will keep doing drugs. If you help her get through the rough then she will stop with the drugs, she will then love her family and her friends again, she will care for them!
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
I think stay with her as a friend. Help her get through all of this but let it stay as a friend. After she has fully recovered you should back out slowly. Still having contact and letting her know you are there but not as intense.
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obscene (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
ok fine, maybe I got a soft spot or something
give her one more chance
If she blows it this time, then ditch her!
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a400m-runner (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
I feel that if you truly care about her you should help her out.
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